In fact, of course couples want each other to be together. Living apart in two places will not only make them miss each other, but it is also prone to problems such as cheating, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife. But sometimes due to practical reasons, the couple has to choose to live in two places. In this case, how can the couple maintain their relationship while living in two places? Here are some tips for couples living apart in two places.
1. Being in a different place between husband and wife can easily affect their relationship
In fact, whether they are in a relationship or getting married, being in a different place is definitely the highest test of loyalty for a couple, but we really shouldn’t take it lightly. To test human nature, don't think that being in a different place can produce a sense of freshness. No matter how strong your relationship is, try not to be in a different place. If there is no way, you are already in a different place, then you should end the long-distance life as soon as possible. If there is no way to end the long-distance life for the time being, , we need to spend some time and effort to manage life in a different place.
2. Three ways to maintain long-distance relationships
1. Moderate concern
< p> If you and your wife are in a different place, you should show appropriate concern. Note that there is a fundamental difference between appropriate concern and checking. When checking the post, we usually ask my wife where are you? Who are you with now? What time will you go back tonight? If you check the post like this, I believe your wife will not feel your concern, and will only feel infinitely bored with you. So how should we properly care for our long-distance wife? Take a look at the following content:You can tell your wife, hey, she worked overtime and worked hard. I just bought you your favorite barbecue online. It will arrive in about half an hour. Remember Go get it! By doing this, you will only show your concern for your wife, but you will not have any feeling of checking the post. Of course, you will also complete the work of checking the post, which is the best of both worlds.
2. Create competitors
When husband and wife are in different places, they should create competitors for each other appropriately. After you let her go, someone will miss you, but you only want to protect yourself for her. For example, if a member of the opposite sex in your work unit sends you a message to invite you to dinner, or wants to give you something, you need to take a screenshot of it and send it to your wife as soon as possible, and then tell her, oops, is she asking you out even though she knows I have a wife? What intention. This is to tell your wife that you are still marketable and that you rejected others because of her. Secondly, you want to tell her that you can withstand temptation even in the face of temptation, and hope that your wife can do the same for you. in this way.
3. Learn to be considerate of each other
Many couples tend to ignore each other's efforts because they are in different places. This situation is prone to problems. For example, many husbands think that their wives just need to take care of the children at home? What's there to be busy with? My wife is also very aggrieved in this situation. Anyone who has taken care of children should know that it is not as good asTired during work. At this time, it is very important to learn to be considerate of the other person. Even if you are in a different place, you must know that the other person's hard work is not easy. At the same time, you must also learn to complain and take credit, so that the other person will feel sorry for you.
