The three views we often talk about generally refer to the outlook on life, the world, and values. If the three views are inconsistent, it means that there are differences in the outlook on life, the world, and values. Each has its own opinion. What will happen if two people have different views of the world together? What does it mean? Can couples who don't get along with each other make it to the end together?
1. You see that China has hip-hop, I see the poetry conference, and you say that the three views are inconsistent. You watch palace dramas, I watch American dramas, and you say the three views are inconsistent. I watch the game but you don’t, and you say the three views are inconsistent. I accidentally flicked my cigarette ashes into the flowers I was growing. You said I have no love. You said my three views are inconsistent. I like to read books after get off work, but I don’t like it if you ask me to play games together. You say our three views don’t match. I like to travel, you like to stay at home, and you say that the three views are different. I like dogs, you like cats, but you say the three views are incompatible...
Now two people can just do a small thing casually It has reached such a height that the three views are inconsistent, so much so that I now begin to doubt whether people’s three views are correct or not. You like to do certain things, but I don't like to do them, and I attack you and force you to give up what you like and follow me because of this. This should be regarded as a disagreement between three views. If you don’t watch football, let me tell you: If you don’t even watch football, is there any meaning in your life? If you watch hip-hop, let me tell you: hip-hop is only for diaosi. What’s the use of watching these useless things? All kinds of things, I feel that this is the incompatibility of the three views.
I think the so-called compatibility of the three views depends on whether a person respects and understands enough. If you watch hip-hop, I don’t like it, but I won’t forcefully interfere or force you to change the channel. If you like to play games, I can also tell you about interesting things in the book or play games with you. I don't like cats and you don't like dogs. We can discuss and see which side can compromise. But if you like hooking up, there is no need to discuss this matter, and I don’t believe in the saying that the prodigal son will come back.
Of course, there are also issues such as how to deal with others, how to treat the old and the young, whether to help or not, and so on. I prefer two people to raise and solve problems and seek common ground while reserving differences on the premise of sufficient respect, rather than arguing about whether you are good or not.
2. The biggest difference in outlook between my boyfriend and I is that I believe in truth, goodness and beauty, and he tells me how realistic this society is. How you should be. It’s not that I don’t understand the complexity and reality of society, I just want to keep an innocent heart. I have always felt that this is very valuable in this impetuous society. But when we discuss certain social issues, I will not only be denied, but also despised.
What I can do is that we two have different views, which can be different, but I respect your views and your life principles. I don’t agree with them, but I will not deny them. At least I can tolerate different values, outlook on life, and world view. I won't impose my ideas on others. But he can't, he always likes to use hisStandards to ask me, use his three views to measure me.
From the above two examples, we can easily see that it is normal for two people to have different views on each other, and even if they are three Even if they have different views, if two people can respect and understand each other, they can still get along well together.
