Some boys also bring it upon themselves. Obviously, sometimes if they have a softer attitude, be more peaceful, and have a better attitude towards their girlfriends, they can avoid many quarrels or cold wars in the process of love. But when I'm angry, I really can't care about that much. What should I do if my girlfriend really has a cold war with me and ignores me? The consequences will be serious. Let me analyze for you how to break the cold war with your girlfriend? The cold war has been particularly emotionally damaging for a long time.
1. Bow your head first
When you are having a cold war with your girlfriend, no matter whose problem it is (usually both parties have some problems), don’t worry so much about it at this time. Lower your head first. Men, don't be so stingy. If there is a conflict between lovers, it should be resolved if it is long-term, rather than relying on a cold war to let the girlfriend figure it out on her own.
Of course, there may be men who think that if you give in too much if you bow your head first every time, your girlfriend will be a little "floating", and won't she be very tired in the future? This requires you and your girlfriend to communicate more often. Many things can be solved through talking. If she has a reasonable reason, then take a step back from each other. If both of you can't accept it and don't understand it, then it's "in vain". It's better to talk openly than to be blind.
2. Find opportunities for your girlfriend to deal with you
Sometimes problems have been accumulating for a long time, and it is not up to you. If it can be solved by just bowing your head and admitting your mistake, then find an opportunity to let your girlfriend care about you. It's best if this opportunity is a little funny and humorous, and there is an excuse for your girlfriend to ignore you, so that she will temporarily put aside the cold war between you and deal with you, for example:
You squat when you go to the toilet. Large size, I realized after squatting that the toilet was out of paper (you can make this yourself), so I had to pitifully ask my girlfriend for help. Remember, be as flattering as you can in your tone. Your girlfriend will definitely be dumbfounded and send you paper. As long as she can ignore you, are you still far away from breaking the cold war?
For the rest, there are some takeaways. Ask your girlfriend what she wants to eat. You are going to do laundry and ask your girlfriend if she has anything to wash. If you have a friend who buys something very cheap at the duty-free shop, ask your girlfriend if she has any. What cosmetics should you bring? If you win 5 million, ask your girlfriend how she wants to spend it (haha, of course I’m joking)...
3. Reflect on your relationship
If after you have gone through the above efforts, your girlfriend is still having a cold war with you, don’t think it’s because your girlfriend is being too pretentious and doesn’t know how to appreciate you. At this time, you need to figure out whether it is because the cold war between you has not been resolved, and whether it is a small problem or conflict in your eyes that may have affected her bottom line and principles in the eyes of your girlfriend. So when you laugh like this and bow your head and admit your mistake on the surface, in the eyes of your girlfriend, you actually don't realize the mistake at all. She thinks that if you don’t change this problem,Maybe you won't be able to go on.
This means you need to reflect on yourself and your relationship. Maybe you ignored your girlfriend's birthday while playing games with your buddies, and it may seem to her that you don't care about her at all; you think you cheated on her by not telling her the truth because you were afraid of her, and you thought it was good for her, but she didn't. I think you are not worthy of her trust.
The Cold War is the most emotionally damaging thing. I hope that when you encounter problems on the road of love, you will find ways to solve them instead of resorting to The Cold War wants the other side to compromise.
