Couples who care about each other in traditional Chinese marriage are also accustomed to integrating love into their lives, which undoubtedly lacks adjustment and fun. Marriage experts suggest that compared with foreign couples, Chinese marriages are most likely to lack the following things. If you can find these things, your marital problems can be alleviated.
1. Intimacy
Most traditional families lack intimacy, but marriage experts have discovered that intimate behaviors such as hugging, holding hands, and kissing are actually necessities of married life.
An association in Japan once launched such an activity, requiring husbands to give their wives a hug before going out every day. When they get along, they always give their wives a surprise hug and let them hug their waists together. Every day, the couple enjoys these tender moments. Later interviews revealed that both husband and wife like to immerse themselves in this warmth and their relationship becomes deeper.
2. Love words
Relevant research has found that if a couple can say more than three sweet words a day, such as "I love you" and "I miss you", the strong relationship between the two parties will last longer. Sweet words in the lover's left ear are more likely to impress the other person.
3. Humor
If people have a sense of humor, they can resolve conflicts, reduce conflicts, and eliminate barriers between the two parties. Humor includes many things, such as praising your wife and making your wife happy. When wives are affected by these positive emotions, their mood will improve, which is conducive to the long-term development of the marriage.
4. Appreciation
Chinese people can look at strangers with appreciation, but rarely look at their other half with appreciation. There may be many reasons, but looking at each other critically for a long time will hurt the couple's relationship over time, which is also a red light for marriage. Everyone wants the person they like to appreciate and praise them, so couples might as well look at each other's strengths and talk about each other's appreciation.
5. Communication
The most essential thing for a happy marriage, communication is the most important part of married life. It can ease the conflict between the two parties. It is recommended to replace criticism with praise, avoid personal attacks, and use more modifiers.
In addition, avoid negative environments such as fatigue, hunger, busyness, illness, etc. when communicating, otherwise the results may be greatly compromised.
