We all know that in the marriage and love market, if a man is rich and handsome, he must be very popular. But have you ever thought about it, if you have to choose one of the two: Is it better for a man to be rich or handsome? The following is an analysis of the hidden rules in the marriage and love market. I hope that men can use their own advantages to get out of singles smoothly.
1. The difference between a rich man and a handsome man
I want to explain clearly the difference between a rich man and a handsome man. We must first understand an unwritten rule in the marriage and love market - what value you use to attract a woman, then what value you must use to retain this person.
If, I mean if. One day, a girl suddenly comes to you and tells you that you are so handsome and wants to have a relationship with you. You think this girl is not bad at all, so you happily accept. After we got together, she touched your abdominal muscles every day and forced you to work out and get in shape. You have to dress up very exquisitely every day. If you are a little sloppy and slack, she will immediately become cold to you. Because you know that what she likes is your skin. It was fine when you were in your twenties. With a little maintenance, it was enough to please her.
What happens when you are thirty? When work pressure comes up, men tend to gain weight and become bald. When your looks no longer attract her, she will immediately leave you and turn her head to men who are more handsome and have better figures than you.
But if you have money, it will be different. If a girl is with you because she is rich, no matter whether she really likes you or not, as long as your family property is still there, a few houses in the city are still valuable, and you can afford a Land Rover, a big G and a Porsche, she will not leave you easily.
To put it more realistically: if you are 20 years old and rich, you can find someone young and beautiful. Even if you are 30 years old and have money, you can still find someone young and beautiful. If you are rich at 40, you can still find someone young and beautiful. But it’s unclear whether the woman you’re with is Pan Jinlian, whether she’s living here and there, or whether she’s secretly trying to drain your family’s fortune.
2. Is it better for a man to be rich or handsome?
If a man is handsome, he can attract some attractive girls, but this is [short-term appreciation, long-term depreciation of capital. In other words, if a girl comes just for your skin, then there is a high probability that she will just want to have fun with you from the beginning, and wait until she gets tired of it, or you get older and are no longer interested in her. Attraction will naturally leave you.
For both men and women, appearance is only a short-term bonus stage for a person. Even if a man's appearance and figure are comparable to Peng Yuyan's, his other career, emotional intelligence, and knowledge are almost zero. He may even have been kept by a rich woman when he was young. But what about after thirty? What about after forty? Good looks are hard to come by. After the bonus period, they will be eliminated by the marriage and love market immediately.
And if a woman is with you for money, thenThe purpose is completely different. It is no secret that the real estate, family background, social status, economic income, etc. of wealthy people in first-tier cities are capital that belongs to "long-term appreciation". These capitals have a strong ability to preserve value, are rare in male resources, have little substitutability, and are highly competitive, which can put a person in a long-term dividend stage.
Therefore, among men who are rich and handsome, being rich is a longer-term rarity. But if you want a pure love, you may not be able to rely only on being rich and handsome. These can only be regarded as spices in the marriage and love market, and you need to dig out the more details yourself.
