What does “scum-absorbing constitution” mean? The so-called boys with a scum-absorbing physique feel that their external conditions are okay and they take relationships seriously, but the girls they meet will not seriously interact with them. They give their sincerity but get nothing in the end. Let me share with you what are the characteristics of boys with scum-absorbing physiques? I hope boys with scum-absorbing physiques can look for problems within themselves.
1. Having needs beyond one’s own conditions
As the saying goes, flies don’t bite seamless eggs, and this is what happens with boys with so-called scum-sucking physiques. Boys with scum-sucking physiques must have inner needs beyond their own conditions. For example, his monthly salary is only 4 or 5k, but he just likes beautiful women and ignores ordinary-looking girls introduced to him. As a result, he ended up dating several girlfriends and found out that they were all young ladies, but boys generally cannot accept him. This is what girlfriends do, and then they break up. After breaking up many times, he still refuses to compromise on his beauty requirements. Maybe his next girlfriend will still be a girl who works in a special industry.
Such boys are simply greedy and not worthy of their abilities. The right way is to find a girlfriend with whatever conditions you have.
2. They have little life experience
The reason why some boys have scum-absorbing physiques is because Because I have lived in a relatively clean environment since I was a child, or because I have little life experience, I have developed a relatively simple temperament. If a scumbag girl can't trick a scumbag man, she will naturally have to find a way to trick an honest man like him.
For example, a boy is not particularly good-looking, and he doesn’t know how to say love words to please girls. He doesn’t have any bright spots in a crowd, and his economic conditions are average. Ordinary girls will basically not notice you, but those girls who want to trick you will flock to you. Such boys think that scumbags are sincere to them, so they will naturally offer their sincerity unconditionally. The result is of course being hurt.
3. Want to save the scumbag
Of course, there is also a type of boys who think they can save the scumbag. A wounded heart, being hurt by a scumbag again and again after being pushed past the bottom line yet refusing to repent. Therefore, there is no natural scum-absorbing physique. This kind of boy is addicted to imaginary love stories and cannot extricate himself. He brings it upon himself.
Boys with this kind of scum-absorbing physique can be summed up in one sentence: "People who like to look for treasures in garbage dumps, because scum has been classified as garbage, and you still want to look for it, who is to blame?" "Just do it yourself.
So when a boy has a scumbag physique, don’t complain first about why he always meets scumbags and never meets scumbags. People who are sincere to themselves, calmly think about it, have you ever dealt with good, normal, decent people? Are they all friends with some bad, interesting, and fun people, but only people with no conscience? Just because you have a good personality, a good education, and a conscience doesn't mean you will like or fall in love with the same person.
