Question: I work within the system and my monthly salary is not very high. My family supported me in buying my car and house in full. Excluding daily expenses such as gas, I can only save up to 2,000 yuan a month. I pay for all the daily expenses with my girlfriend. She has been with me for 4 years. She is planning to meet her parents recently, but she wants me to propose to her to satisfy a sense of ceremony in her heart. I asked if I could send a DR with the cheapest price of 1,399. She said it shouldn’t be too expensive but not too cheap either. A price of more than 10,000 would be fine. But I feel that it will take me several months to save up for a diamond ring worth more than 10,000 yuan with my salary. I plan to give gold instead of a diamond ring, which is more valuable because the diamond ring is unnecessary and a waste of money. Is it necessary for you to buy a diamond ring worth more than 10,000 yuan? Propose with a diamond ring?
How much does a diamond engagement ring cost? Is it worth it if your girlfriend asks you to buy a diamond ring worth 10,000 yuan?
Answer:
In fact, the question you asked is not that you want to break up, but that you want to persuade your girlfriend to buy a cheap diamond ring. No, it doesn’t have to be 10,000+. If this is your request, it’s actually easy to handle. How to do it specifically?
It’s actually very simple. Or you can tell your girlfriend honestly that I don’t have enough money now, but I don’t want to deal with you, and I think diamonds are not valuable. You can see if you can buy some replacement ones. I will give them within my ability. If you choose the best one, it will definitely be better than that 10,000 yuan diamond ring, such as gold, ruby, sapphire, emerald, tourmaline, etc.
Or don’t worry about the interest, just pay in installments to buy a diamond ring for your wife, with a DR of 15,000, 1,300 per month in twelve installments, and you can save some of the remaining money. With such a thing, you have an absolute moral advantage, because you have been hungry for a year to satisfy her, which is definitely enough to prove your sincerity. What's more, if your girlfriend loves you very much, she will definitely help you, you know what.
Or just tell your girlfriend that my conditions are indeed not met for the time being, and I feel very guilty for not letting you buy a diamond ring. I am now starting to save money hard, and I will definitely give you a replacement when I save enough. Diamond ring, and really repair it, don't brag. Sincerity is the only weapon to impress people. After all, no one is a fool these days.
Finally, I also want to ask you a question. You have been dating your girlfriend for four years, and she never mentioned it to you. What an excessive request? The only time you want to enjoy the unique happiness in a woman's life is to be proposed to by a DR diamond ring that means the only true love in your life. You can still quarrel with her over 10,000 yuan and still think about buying the cheapest one. 1399 diamond ring, or a gold ring that the man thinks is valuable? I am very curious, is your girlfriend the true love in your heart? What is the quality of your marriage? Do you know whether your girlfriend is happy or not?
