I looked through the comments in the background and found that many friends are very interested in the topic "How to comfort your girlfriend when she is angry?" So today we will talk about this topic. Putting aside those fancy methods, I want to What I want to talk about with you is the reason why girls are angry. I think this is what most friends want to know, so what are you waiting for? Let’s take a look.
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I was not angry at first, I just wanted to make him pay attention to me and care about me. Himself, it turned out that he was indifferent, unaware or impatient, which turned into real anger.
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I need to explain to you the ins and outs of the matter first, and then what I think. Maybe the matter is too complicated and I have too many mental activities. The boy listened to it again. I still don't understand, so I have to explain it in depth again. It's too laborious for girls to explain.
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I don’t want him to know that I am so easily angry and feel that I am pessimistic or full of negative energy. Full, so she herself is also struggling with whether to say it or not, hoping that you will understand, take the initiative to ask multiple times, or just guess correctly.
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I don’t want to bring negative energy to him, and I also feel that if I speak out and make trouble for both of them, it is better not to say it, so as not to make the trouble even bigger in the end. He was afraid that after talking too much, he would feel annoyed and unwilling to comfort himself.
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It seems hypocritical to say it, but it feels aggrieved not to say it. I'm afraid that after I open my mouth, everything will seem to come on my own.
I long for someone who can understand what I want to say and what my heart is. He knew what he wanted before he even said it.
For example, if you are angry because he doesn't care about you very much, you want him to realize why he is angry, instead of taking the initiative to say, please pay more attention to me.
In the eyes of girls, this is something you ask for. What you want is different from what he actively gives, and after you ask, everything he does has the meaning of compensation.
At the same time, girls will also feel disappointed. He cannot notice these things and has to say it himself. He feels that the relationship can only be maintained by asking for it. He has no awareness of maintaining the relationship.
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Worried that the reason for being angry is too childish and afraid of being laughed at.
You may also be angry just because you didn’t get the snack you liked today, and you didn’t give her the last piece of meat during the meal, or maybe the snack you’ve been looking forward to for a long time is finally open, and you go there in high spirits, only to find that the one you like is already there. sold outWait for the little things.
Because things that have been expected for a long time and then suddenly come to nothing can easily make people feel bad, but it is really not a big deal, so sometimes I feel uncomfortable letting my boyfriend know that I am unhappy because of these small things.
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Sometimes she may really be angry and doesn’t know why she is angry. There have been too many unhappy things recently, and they suddenly exploded after a long period of accumulation. Maybe she was too busy.
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Maybe he is jealous.
Quickly recall whether you ever misunderstood your female colleague by chatting with her, or whether you went out to play with friends without taking her and waited for her, and you were too blatant and thin-skinned to let you notice.
After careful calculation, the reasons why a girl is angry are the above, so next time she is angry, first think carefully about what she did some time ago when she was angry, and find out the reason. Prescribing the right medicine is undoubtedly the best solution, don’t you think?
