Fighting with your girlfriend is common, but a cold war is not a good way to solve the problem. This article will introduce to you how to deal with a cold war with your girlfriend and why harmony is more important than face.
1. Calm down first
When you find yourself in a cold war with your girlfriend, first of all All you have to do is calm down. Don't try to solve the problem in an emotional state; it will only make things worse.
2. Find out the problem
After calming down, you need to find out the problem. Think back to why you were fighting and see if there's anything you can do to improve. If you feel you are not wrong, try to understand the other person's position as well.
3. Apologize proactively
Even if you feel you are not at fault, you should apologize proactively. This doesn't mean you're admitting your mistake, but it's expressing that you feel sorry for her and want to start over.
4. Communication to solve problems
Effective communication with your girlfriend is the key to solving problems. Listen to her ideas and suggestions and try to find a mutually acceptable solution.
5. Harmony is more important than face
Finally, what we need to understand is that harmony is more important than face. While we may stick to our guns to save face, this only makes things more complicated. On the contrary, if we can put down our dignity and live in peace with our girlfriends, we will gain more happiness.
When we are in a cold war with our girlfriends, we need to stay calm and find out what the problem is. Proactive apology and effective communication are the keys to solving the problem. Finally, we need to understand that harmony is more important than face, and only in this way can we achieve true happiness.
