Long-distance relationship is a test. Proof that love doesn’t come easily. Emotional attitudes. A person who has an attitude towards feelings will get more happiness and a more stable love. So how to better maintain a long-distance relationship?
My lover and I have been in a long-distance relationship for six years now. In the past six years, we have never broken up and rarely had major quarrels. Every day is sweet and warm, and we are indeed very happy. As people who have been there, we have the following experiences to share with you.
How to maintain a long-distance relationship
1. Say your inner feelings out loud
Long-distance love and cold communication equipment will make all vague things stand up. At this time, we need to express our inner emotions loudly, not let distance block our hearts, let the other party know that we deeply love the other party, and thus strengthen the confidence to maintain this relationship. There are many ways to express emotions, such as simple and direct speech, whispering in the ear, loving letters, etc. Choose a way you like to express your love to the other person!
2. Give each other enough trust
The biggest enemy in a relationship is suspicion and suspicion, especially in long-distance relationships. So we're not together, so we don't know what each other is doing, what kind of life we're living, how we're feeling, where our social circles are. Distance makes relationships more fragile, and a text message from a stranger of the opposite sex can set off a hurricane. Therefore, couples in a long-distance relationship must trust each other more firmly and believe that the other party truly loves each other. Of course, trust is mutual. If you want to gain the other party's unconditional trust, you must first give the other party enough trust.
3. Be willing to share each other’s lives
Be sure to share each other’s lives all the time, even trivial things, good or bad moods, you can share and tell each other, don’t Fade out of each other's lives. Because of the distance, it is more important to learn to listen and share details of each other's lives, understand each other's current situation, and exchange opinions, so that love can last longer.
Long-distance love and lovesickness cannot meet each other. This is the anguish that breaks the hearts of countless couples. In fact, if you want to solve the pain of lovesickness, it is fundamental to solve the problem directly in another place. However, many couples living in long-distance places are unable to completely end their long-distance relationships for the time being due to the troubles of reality.
The best way to solve long-distance relationships
1. Set up a special fund for meeting
< p>Two people in a long-distance relationship want to solve the pain of long-distance love, and seeing each other is the best way. However, due to time and financial constraints, many people cannot meet frequently. At this time, you can actually give the other party a hope of meeting. Two people jointly set up a conference baseKim is a good way. This money will only be used when you meet, which is a very romantic thing to think about. The best relationships in the world must have hope. In a long-distance relationship, two people cannot see each other and often fall into a state of despair. At this time, a special fund for meetings was set up, and every money invested was for the meeting between the two. Although they can't meet each other, the two have been preparing for the meeting.2. Set a fixed contact time to make both parties feel at ease
The most painful thing about long-distance relationships is not being able to see each other when you miss them. Setting a fixed contact time can not only relieve the pain of lovesickness, but also make both parties feel at ease. Set a fixed time point. At this time every day, two people establish a connection, and there will never be a situation where they need each other but cannot find them. Moreover, with the formation of such a fixed contact mechanism, there is a unified time to talk about things encountered in daily life, and there is a basis for centralized sustenance of thoughts, so that you will not be troubled by emotional problems in life. Life happens all the time.
3. When you miss each other, you might as well talk about the future together
The problem with long-distance relationships ultimately lies in the word long-distance. If you miss each other in a long-distance relationship, you might as well discuss their future together. How to completely end the long-distance relationship and let two people get along day and night. Although this kind of discussion cannot solve the problem quickly, it can quickly resolve the pain of lovesickness and confidence in tomorrow, so that two people in different places will no longer worry about today's short separation. After the discussion, everyone devoted themselves to work and life, working hard day and night for the future.
What you love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can be leveled. Long-distance relationships are the touchstone of relationships. As this love ended without a problem, the survivors finally ushered in the perfect ending of growing old together. Long distance relationships are painful and unforgettable. There's a saying that if you survive a long-distance relationship, get married. I hope that every couple in a long-distance relationship can survive the pain of lovesickness and eventually grow old together.
