No matter how many emotional experiences your girlfriend had before she got together with you, no matter how much she loved your ex before, as long as she is with you now, as long as she really loves you, then what happened before should not be Go figure it out. But what if your girlfriend can’t let go of her ex while she’s with you? This situation is actually very dangerous, and you might not even know if you get cheated one day.
1. Depend on whether your relationship is deep or not
It is really difficult for your girlfriend to let go of your ex. If you have been together for a long time, your relationship is relatively deep. , then try to guide her and use your kindness to make your girlfriend forget about her ex. For example, if you get married and have children, in these ordinary days, you can slowly eliminate your girlfriend's obsession with the previous relationship (provided that you can guarantee that your girlfriend will not relapse with your ex, otherwise getting married and having children may be a mess)
If you and your girlfriend have just gotten together, it’s normal for her to be unable to let go of her ex for the time being, and you don’t have much affection at this time. Basically, some are just good feelings. Either you jump out of this trap as soon as possible and break up with her as soon as possible to get relief. Either you guide her to love you wholeheartedly, then you have to know how to downplay the relationship between her and her ex and help her get over her last relationship.
2. Look at the reasons why your girlfriend broke up with her ex
If your girlfriend still can’t let go of your ex after being with you, there are generally several situations:
1. I still love my ex, and I love her very, very much, but we broke up due to some irresistible factors, such as my parents’ opposition. Generally, in this case, you may be at risk of being greenlit. (Shivering) But if you love her very much and have enough patience and tolerance, then love her well. Over time, she will slowly forget about you, slowly get used to you, and fall in love with you. But it depends on how much you love her and how much patience and tolerance you have.
2. Your girlfriend loved her ex very much before, but she was hurt. She also knows that two people are impossible, and her ex I'm sorry for her. Her ex doesn't love her anymore, but due to habits or other factors, she can't forget him in a short time. You don't have to worry about this situation. Just love her well, don't mention the past, just talk about the present and the future. She will Slowly falling in love with you more.
3. Your girlfriend has a long-term relationship. She can’t let go of her ex but needs some time to forget. This is also the best situation. You'd better set a time based on your own situation and don't delay it indefinitely, otherwise it means you are just a spare tire. Because some girls just like to use new love to forget their ex, which is actually an irresponsible behavior.
In fact, when it comes to situations where a girlfriend can’t let go of her ex, the editor stillYou suggested breaking up, why did you say that? If a person can't forget his ex and still has feelings for his ex, but still stays with you to enjoy your kindness and the feeling of being loved, I think this kind of person is irresponsible for your feelings, and also If you are irresponsible in life, stay away from such people. In a relationship, never try to use your own methods to make a partner who is thinking about his ex forget his ex and think about you. Don't be a spare tire, don't be a licking dog.
