Only those who are truly married know that love and marriage are two completely different things! The wife in a man’s mind will not be as beautiful as a flower, and it is even more difficult to be a good wife and mother. In addition, parents have different opinions on small things in life. The communication breakdown and the quarrels over financial expenses... are even more unacceptable.
But the establishment of marriage is no longer a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Maintaining marriage has become an important issue that many couples need to solve urgently. Due to people's habit of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, couples have to understand these marriage maintenance skills.
1. Tolerance
Marquez pointed out in "Love in the Time of Cholera": The importance of married life The key is controlling aversion. Married couples will always have various conflicts in their married life. At this time, as a man, you should show your mind as broad as the sea and try to tolerate and understand your wife. Everyone has their own flaws. and difficulties, trying to tolerate your wife can bring about your wife's tolerance.
2. Communication
Communication is an indispensable and important part of marriage maintenance skills. Now that two people have become husband and wife, some important matters need to be communicated with the wife, so that the wife can feel respected as a family member. This is the meaning of more communication in marriage. As long as you take good care of your marriage, your marriage will treat your life well.
3. Appreciation
After getting married, many couples will gradually discover more of each other’s shortcomings and However, when quarrels occur, these bad habits or shortcomings are often magnified, causing harm to the other party. In such quarrels, the relationship between husband and wife will become increasingly damaged. Husbands and wives should appreciate each other. If a couple only sees each other's shortcomings, it will be difficult to maintain happiness. Only couples who appreciate each other can feel the beauty of marriage.
