There is a concept of marriage that has been passed down to this day: a well-matched couple. Today we will not say whether this concept is correct or not. This concept actually also reflects a kind of value: the relationship must be equally matched. If during the relationship, you find that your girlfriend dislikes you, your relationship may not last long. What should I do if my girlfriend dislikes me? It's wrong to start with emotional disparity.
1. If your girlfriend dislikes you, she doesn’t really love you
If your girlfriend really loves you, then no matter what you look like or what your situation is, she will like and care about you in her heart. . And if your girlfriend doesn't love you, then no matter how good you are, your girlfriend will be able to find flaws in you and pick on your shortcomings; if she just looks at you, it's not good, and that's not good either. Because she only cares about herself and not you.
As a man, if you find that your girlfriend looks down on you here and despises you there, it means that your girl Your friend doesn't love you. Because she doesn't love you, she will despise you for being poor and having nothing, instead of giving you a chance to work hard and struggle. As for a girlfriend who truly loves you, as long as she can accompany you, everything else is not a problem; so whether you love her or not can be seen bit by bit; you have no relationship in your girlfriend's heart. No matter your status, she will naturally dislike you.
2. If your girlfriend dislikes you, she may leave
If a man and a woman are not in true love together, then they cannot tolerate each other, but dislike each other. Those two people will not be able to go far. Far away. Because you don’t love in your heart, when the passion in love recedes, you will find excuses and reasons to leave. So you will find that what was originally your advantage at the beginning of the relationship will eventually become the reason why your girlfriend dislikes you.
As a man, if your girlfriend looks down on you and despises you, it means that your girlfriend will leave you sooner or later. Because after your girlfriend has been with you for a while, she feels that there is no point in being with you, so she will dislike you for being bad here and having problems there. This is when she wants to leave you.
3. You can let go of love that is not respected
Men, if your girlfriend looks down on you and despises you, you can completely let go of this kind of love that is not respected. Let go. Because since she can't get respect, she will definitely abandon you sooner or later. As a man, there is no need to abandon your dignity just because of temporary reluctance. If you put it off for a long time, it will be bad for yourself. Maybe if you clear up your mood earlier, you can meet the next right person earlier.
Of course, if your girlfriend dislikes you, it is indeed your own problem. For example, if your girlfriend dislikes you,You are poor, but you don’t work hard, just eat and drink every day, without thinking about improving your conditions through hard work; for example, your girlfriend dislikes you for not being hygienic, but you are still slovenly... If this situation continues, it is not so much you If your girlfriend dislikes you, it's better to say that you are asking for it. Your girlfriend will leave you when she can't bear it.
