When most people hear "engagement" and "engagement" at first glance, they feel that the meanings seem to be very similar, but when they think about it, there are some differences. So what is "engagement" and what is "engagement"?
The difference between engagement and engagement
Engagement: The man’s family goes to the woman’s family with gifts (such as cigarettes, wine, meat and other gifts, for the sake of celebration and good luck, the gifts are all in even numbers) to express the expectation of marrying the other party’s daughter. It is also the parents of both parties. formal meeting ceremony. With the consent of both parents, the man and woman can be said to be engaged.
The betrothal ceremony is generally very simple. Under the auspices of the matchmaker, the betrothal is attended by both the man and the woman, their parents and some relatives. Everyone drinks, eats, chats, and recognizes relatives together.
However, generally speaking, engagement requires discussion of some important issues, such as the bride price, house, car, etc. required by the woman. If the man cannot meet these requirements, the engagement may fail. However, there are also families where the man cannot meet the woman's requirements but always agrees to it, which often leads to conflicts during marriage.
Engagement: Usually the two families negotiate the marriage process together. Due to different family cultures, both parties need to discuss it before getting married. Prepare some matters related to the marriage process, especially money-related matters such as bride price, bride price, and dowry.
Then on the wedding day, the man brings the bride price and bride price to the woman’s home to win his wife. The next day, the woman brings the dowry to marry into the man’s home. Relatives and friends are usually invited to a banquet on the day to witness the marriage ceremony of the two people.
In short, engagement is to tell the girl’s parents that they want to win the daughter of the other party, and get their consent. Before it is recognized, it can only be regarded as a proposal of marriage. Engagement is a process in which both families discuss and arrange the marriage.
