In fact, many times when a marriage comes to an end, it will show up in advance, but many people don’t pay attention at all, or they don’t pay attention to it when they find out. Let me share with you the signs that your marriage will not last long? If these signs appear in your marriage, please start making preparations immediately to avoid regrets in the end:
1. The communication between each other is getting less and less
If Both people in a marriage like silence and cold war, which means that they don’t want to have any more relationships or involvement with the other person. It also means that the other person has acquiesced that no conclusion can be reached from communicating with you. Instead of adding to the obstacles, it is better not to say anything at all. explain.
2. You don’t know each other’s life better and better
You don’t know what the other person is doing in the marriage, and you don’t care anyway; why does this person come back later and later? Home, I don’t know, because you are not interested either, where this person is willing to go.
3. Frequent quarrels because of trivial matters in life
It is normal to argue in a marriage, but because of trivial matters in life Frequent quarrels, maybe it doesn’t matter what the matter is, or even whether it is important or not. What is important is that the two people have accumulated too many negative emotions in this relationship and urgently need an outlet to vent these. Let negative emotions out.
4. Easily become impatient
As soon as you said a few words to her, she became angry; before you finished speaking, she turned and left. ... She is becoming more and more impatient with you, leaving less and less time and energy for you. She no longer wants to spend any thought on this relationship.
5. Find various excuses to avoid you
Whether it’s working overtime, socializing, or having something to do, the other person comes home less and less often. The family's first reaction was to immediately lock themselves in the room and not come out. The other person doesn't want to talk to you at all, nor does he want to be in the same space with you.
6. You haven’t had sex with each other for a long time
Physical intimacy is a very important reference factor in measuring a relationship. Neither of you are willing to touch each other anymore. Then it means that you have begun to hate each other from the bottom of your heart and want to part ways with each other.
7. Becoming very sensitive to property and income
It turns out that we all have a good relationship and are all one family. , these things don't matter, they are not important. But now, you both feel that this marriage is no longer necessary, or you feel that the other person will part ways with you sooner or later, so at this time you all begin to pay attention to how many resources there are in the family, how much value you have contributed, and how much value you have contributed. Have you suffered a loss in this relationship and let the other party take advantage?
8. Frequently complaining about the other person's bad qualities
These problems actually did not appear on the first day, but this person was generally good in your eyes before, so you were still willing to tolerate this person. But now, the other person's image in your heart has become negative, and you no longer have any reason to choose to tolerate her, so you start to blame each other and keep looking for each other's shortcomings and shortcomings.
9. Deliberately "showing off" excitement in this relationship
It may be because I am not convinced by your previous accusations, so I choose to show you now; there are also cases where It may be that the other party wants to stimulate you through these actions and make you choose to talk about divorce... In short, at this time, you can clearly feel that this person is deliberately or unintentionally choosing to use bad ways to disgust you in the relationship.
10. It is less and less common to appear in front of others together
Whether it is a gathering of friends or together Go back to visit your parents. For you, the frequency of seeing each other in the same frame becomes less and less. On the one hand, it's out of sight, out of mind, and neither of you wants to see the other more. On the other hand, it's because you subconsciously feel that since you are going to be separated in the future, it's better not to show up together now to avoid embarrassment to each other in the future.
