Generally speaking, if you and your girlfriend have been together for a long time, and the two families are not too far apart, out of etiquette considerations, you should actually go to your girlfriend’s house to pay New Year greetings during the Chinese New Year, which can be regarded as an advance visit. Get a good impression. But if you offer to go to your girlfriend’s house for Chinese New Year, but your girlfriend doesn’t let you go to her house, do you know why?
Why won’t my girlfriend let me go to her house to pay her New Year greetings during the Chinese New Year?
1. My girlfriend’s family has different traditions. Allowed
@杨Xufeng: My girlfriend is from Inner Mongolia and I am from Sichuan. We have been together for three years. She went to school in Sichuan for an internship and often stayed at my house on weekends. My parents and relatives have all met her. She would go back to Inner Mongolia every winter and summer vacation. During the recent Chinese New Year, my family often joked and asked me why I didn’t go to my girlfriend’s house to pay New Year greetings? I often mention this, and I also want to meet her parents. But my girlfriend said that her family is very traditional and she cannot take her back without getting married. He also said that if he took it home and broke up later, he would be laughed at by others. I don't know what to say about this, just let her be.
2. My girlfriend’s family doesn’t agree with me
@Lister: I already asked my girlfriend about it years ago. I said I wanted to go to her house to visit her parents during the New Year, and then send her as a gift. Nodding and wishing you a happy new year. Because I am already working, I am 25, and my girlfriend is 23, and we have been dating for nearly two years. But since my girlfriend was still in graduate school, her parents and she refused to let me go because of her young age (her parents meant what she told me). I feel it's very abnormal. I also wondered if my girlfriend's parents don't agree with what's going on between us. Now I can only take it one step at a time.
3. Your girlfriend doesn’t love you that much
Sometimes if your girlfriend doesn’t love you that much , maybe she has no intention of staying with you for a long time, so she may not even tell her parents that she has a boyfriend, so how can she let you go to her house to pay New Year's greetings? In fact, your girlfriend has a little thought at this time, that is, she has left a way out for herself, and her reputation will not be damaged even if she wants to break up with you at any time. The second is that maybe you haven't reached the ideal marriage partner in her mind, and if a girl chooses to take you home, it means that she wants to marry you, do you understand?
Summary: If she is a girl who really wants to spend her life with you, she must be looking forward to you visiting her home during the Chinese New Year, and she will also give you tips on how to do it in front of her parents. To leave a good impression, she won't let you go to her house to pay New Year greetings. The reason for this is actually because she doesn't love her that much.
