Although the sweet period of the relationship only lasts a few months at most, during that period the two people are inseparable and will continue to chat even after they are separated. But after the sweet period, the two people may have less contact, and they may not contact each other for three or four days. Is it normal to not contact someone for more than three days in a relationship? If there is no contact for more than three days, is there something wrong with the relationship between the two people?
1. Two people are simply busy
Some couples don’t contact each other for three or four days. It really doesn’t mean anything. It may be that they are simply busy, with no time and no topics. Can't make any sense. Maybe he is busy launching the company online and solving problems, and if he doesn't do it well this time, he may face serious consequences; maybe she is also busy studying for exams in addition to work. If she fails the exam this time, she may not have a chance in the future... ...In the adult world, there are not only relationships, but also their own lives and careers to be busy with. This is what everyone needs to understand.
In fact, relationships do not need to be maintained at all times. Don't both parties just spend time together and do their own things when they have time? Will you feel tired if you keep in touch frequently, or will you doubt your relationship if you don’t keep in touch for too long? In the past, when others were hot, you poured cold water on them. But when you were cold, did you blame others for being indifferent to you? Relationships are mutual and free time is limited. In the past, when I was busy, I didn't worry about whether the other party would think too much. Now it's my turn to think about this issue when I'm being left out? If you want the other person to treat you better, you can be as enthusiastic as possible to the other person. Remember not to throw cold water on the other person when they are enthusiastic about you, so that both parties will be better off.
2. Relationship problems
If there is no contact for more than three days in a relationship, it may be because one party always took the initiative in chatting and getting along, and the other party was careless and thought the other party was too long-winded and impatient. I think the other person’s topic is boring and the compliments are not enough. Don't blame others for not wanting to chat with you after a while. Or maybe the party who took the initiative in the past feels that taking the initiative to give is like a licking dog, and the other party is not considerate. Or the other party responds back or reasons with everything, or the other party takes the initiative to end the topic, or dislikes the other party's well-prepared topic for being too boring, and the attitude is not humble and sincere enough, or the active party gets tired after taking the initiative for a long time, which may be passive. The other party is too indifferent, or there is something going on every time, and they don't explain it. Over time, the active party will feel that you are just avoiding it on purpose...
Communication is mutual, feelings are mutual, and it may take a long time. If you are exhausted, just be cold and violent.
Finally, if you feel that you have doubts about a relationship if you don’t contact each other for four or five days, then why don’t you take the initiative to contact the other party? , guessing and asking here, some people like to stick together when they are in love, some people like to do their own thing, some people like to complement each other, there is no specific way of getting along, they all need to get along, and they are a perfect match. There are really very few people with harmonious personalities.Part of it is to slowly adjust and find a point where both parties are satisfied, or one party is satisfied and the other party accommodates.
What does it mean if there is no contact for more than three days in a relationship? You can ask the other party directly. If you have any problems, go and solve them with the other party. Others cannot intervene, and different personalities display different behaviors and convey different things. , why not just ask the other party why they didn’t contact you?
