Recently, a fan asked for help: What should I do if I have nothing to say to my long-distance girlfriend? This issue is indeed an issue worthy of attention! After all, if it is not handled well, it will be easy to part ways, so what are you waiting for? Let’s take a look at the skills to maintain a strong relationship!
(Beep in a low voice): Long-distance relationship + Many people will choose to break up, but I want to say that this is something that every couple will encounter. However, breaking up will not solve this problem, so let's not make the same mistakes again. Here is a summary of a few techniques to keep feelings strong, and read on.
1. Cultivate common interests
It is impossible for couples to have exactly the same hobbies. However, couples can develop common interests and hobbies. For example, both of them sign up for fitness. Even if they are not together, they can chat about interesting things about the gym or each other's body changes and other topics. For another example, two people can read the same book, watch the same movie, eat the same delicious food in the afternoon, etc. this month, do similar things, and cultivate each other's interests.
2. High-quality chat
The suspicion of long-distance relationships corresponds to the desire for control. For example, you have a video chat appointment, but the other party cannot be contacted due to something. The best thing to do is to be more tolerant and understanding, give each other enough space, and don't make the other person feel guilty for something, but make it clear why.
If there is really nothing to talk about, don’t make awkward chatting with far-fetched ideas, and speak your true thoughts. I'm a little tired from work today and feel a little unwell. I want to go to bed early and have a good chat tomorrow. There's no need to waste my emotions.
3. Reduce the frequency of contact
Frequent contact will reduce the number of chat topics and will not lead to more conversations. Too much resonance will produce negative effects.
Couples can agree on a certain time, such as calling 2-3 times a week to talk about some interesting and meaningful things that have happened recently. You can start a video at 9 o'clock every night and maintain a sense of intimacy through face-to-face communication at attractions. Even if you don't speak, you can still start a video and do your own thing, and you can talk about the topic at any time when you think of it. Blindly forcing a topic to chat will make sensitive and suspicious people in long-distance relationships mistakenly think that there is something wrong with the relationship, and the relationship will gradually fade away.
4. Reduce negative energy
Think about it, if the calls you receive every day are full of complaints, then even couples will find chatting unpleasant. In the adult world, learn to control your emotions, have the courage to take on the difficulties and challenges you encounter, and reject negative emotions. There is a kind of girl who is enthusiastic and cheerful. She always has a smile on her face. She is also very positive when talking about the world. She is full of confidence and enthusiasm for life. It seems that her whole person exudes a kind of beauty. Many people can be infected by her and like to be with her. Get along when you believe in beauty, the people around youPeople also feel good feelings, and so do couples.
The above are the suggestions given by the editor on what to do if you have nothing to say to your long-distance girlfriend. I hope it can help you.
