In my opinion, there is no couple who does not quarrel, so it is most important for us to maintain a normal attitude towards the quarrel. Of course, after the quarrel, we still need to face it correctly. Today's editor I’m going to give you some advice on what to do if a couple quarrels. Let’s take a look.
1. Draw the bottom line
First of all, the bottom line must be set. The two people must make it clear that no matter how they quarrel, There are some things that cannot be said out loud, and the other party's bottom line cannot be touched due to a quarrel.
2. Deal with it calmly
After the quarrel, both people can agree to calm down for a period of time. If the other party does not agree to calm down, the other party will think that you are in a cold war when you calm down. .
3. Cold War Time
After two people quarrel, it may be difficult to control their tempers, but you must warn yourself that the cold war should not last too long. The cold war is a kind of cold violence, which can easily lead to conflict. hurt each other's feelings. (Unless you want to break up)
4. Intimate actions
Although two people are quarreling, they are not willing to be humble. Apologize first, and don’t forget to care about the other person at this time. If a girl is coming soon, the boy can remind the girl in advance to prevent her from forgetting. If it’s cold and boys go out, girls can remind them to wear more clothes.
5. Appear suddenly
If the other party does not reply to messages due to a quarrel, the best way is to suddenly appear in front of the other party. Sudden surprises can always effectively relieve minor emotions.
Using the above five methods, you can ease the relationship without having to apologize, but it is very effective. All feelings are hard-won, and I hope that every right person can be cherished.
