Many people actually get married ignorantly. After getting married, they find that they are not suitable for each other. At this time, they want to seek comfort outside of marriage. What if they meet the ideal true love at this time? The following is an analysis of what to do if you meet true love after getting married? Should I divorce and marry my true love?
1. Men in the crazy stage
Generally, men who fall into the "honeymoon period" with women outside of marriage during their marriage are mostly in the "crazy stage". In the current state, I really think that I and the woman outside the marriage are truly in love, and even inseparable from each other. I can't live without her.
At this time, the most common way for them is to force away their original spouse, because at this time, in his eyes, the original spouse is a "stumbling block" that hinders their love. This is what we often call "reverse psychology". The more you stop me, the more I feel that the love between us is so great. I can go through fire and water for love. I want a divorce! Must divorce!
Does such a man seem to be divorced just for love? Let me tell you, he is wrong! Such a man is synonymous with impulsiveness. If his original wife really divorces him, after he marries his true love as he wishes, the marriage will not be happy for a long time, because when everything calms down, his previous "filter" for true love will It broke.
At this time, he will find: "Ah? How can true love also burp and fart?", "Oh my god! Why is true love so lazy?", "It turns out that true love is not as beautiful as my ex-wife without makeup, I How could I have fallen in love with true love before?"
You have to know that such a man has no ability to reflect. He will not think that there is anything wrong with me. When the "true love filter" in his eyes is broken, I will continue to look for the next "goddess", and Xiaosi and Xiaowu will come one after another.
2. Men in mid-life crisis
If a man is in mid-life crisis, then this man will start to "act". How to "act"? Betray the marriage, find a woman outside the marriage, do all the ridiculous things, even if you have to abandon everything, get a divorce, and even declare that you will bankrupt your family for true love. Do you think this man really loves that woman? Of course not!
The reason why he did this, even if he went bankrupt, he still wanted a divorce, was not because he loved true love, but because he wanted to "make up for" himself. He feels that he lived for others in the first half of his life, but now he has to live for himself, so they try to "become young people", do things, and make trouble.
Can you say that such a man is pursuing true love? This is just a struggle. We all know that people can never return to their youth in middle age, so their dreams will eventually wake up.
Summary: Meeting true love after marriage is really a very unlikely event. And you think it is nowTrue love, you may still feel that each other is not suitable for each other in the future and enter an endless loop.
