Originally, the relationship between husband and wife should be the most intimate, but sometimes the husband and wife quarrel, or the marriage relationship breaks down, then sometimes we have to treat outsiders better than we treat our wife or her. So what should I do if my wife is very cold to me and talks and laughs with others?
1. Three feet of ice does not freeze in a day
Your wife will go from caring about you at the beginning to not taking you seriously in the end, not in a day or two. It’s something that only happens over time. Think about it, have you held your wife in the palm of your hand? Think about it, have you allowed your wife to live a life of glory and wealth? Life; you have given her nothing, and it is normal for her to be cold and disgusted with you.
2. If you want to change your wife, change yourself first
In marriage, not everyone Every woman wants to live a life of glory and wealth; in the hearts of most women, mediocrity is the real thing; as long as you have a husband who loves you and loves you, then everything else is not important; so your wife treats you You're welcome, think about it, have you really done your best on the road to marriage? Have you ever argued, quarreled, fought or had trouble with your wife? If you don't take her seriously, it's not good. How can she give you a good look if you love her so much? So if you want your wife to change her attitude towards you, what you should do is to change yourself first; only when you get better, your wife will be sincere treat you.
3. Communicate with your wife to understand the situation
Your wife already has opinions about you. When you have opinions, you should communicate with your wife carefully; tell her Your wife, in the days to come, how should you love her, how should you treat her, how should you love her? Only by letting her realize that you will change yourself and love her as a real princess can she change. , her attitude towards you; if you don't promise, how will you love her in the future? She feels that there is nothing to talk about with you; because she no longer likes you now and has seen through you now; you can only change , can you harvest her sincerity, and only change can make her change her mind.
Four. Love her in all the details
Just talk without doing it, and soon you will Being seen through by your wife; so since you tell him that you should love him, you must use your actual actions to interpret the love in your heart; so you must do the ultimate in the details of loving him ; Don’t let her do the laundry and cooking alone; don’t let her do the mopping and washing the dishes alone; think about it, if she didn’t exist, would you have to do these things by yourself? People do it; so when it’s time to wash her underwear, don’t think you’ll be unlucky; when it’s time to wash her feet, do it yourselfA little water and wash her yourself; every bit of dedication you give to her will melt her cold heart; don't think of yourself as a slave, you should feel honored to be your wife's slave.
5. Hard work is her most eternal support
As a man, if you are unwilling to do anything, then the only thing that can change your wife is that you become a successful Men; as long as you have money, power, status, and identity, then please believe that your wife will definitely give you a smile; and if he is afraid of losing you, he will always think of ways to please you. You; so a man must work hard. Only if you succeed can you live with self-esteem and be your woman, your most eternal support; if a man fails, then you must become a man who loves his wife, no matter how hard you live, You have to be humble, but at least you can make your wife willing to accompany you for the rest of your life.
