No matter how good the relationship is, it will eventually become dull. At this time, many people will mistakenly think that the relationship has faded and they no longer love. In fact, no, this is how the relationship will be after the passion fades. As long as you master the secret method of maintaining a long-term relationship, you don’t have to worry about the relationship coming to an end. So today, the editor brings you how to deal with the relationship when the relationship fades. Let’s take a look.
1. Falling in love is not a goal, it is just a process
Don’t take falling in love too seriously. This does not mean that you should not value this relationship, but in a relationship you must first love yourself before you can love others.
Enjoy every happy moment in a relationship and delay this gratification. Remember the first romantic candlelight dinner, the first warm hug, the first heart-to-heart talk all night long, keep this heart-pounding feeling as much as possible, and then use it as the lubricant in every quarrel.
2. Over-beautifying the matter of falling in love
I have a friend who has never been in love. He likes to read novels and read gossip. Occasionally, he will tell me that he really wants to fall in love. When it comes to love, I asked her if it’s not good to be single? Her answer was: I think love is so sweet, and I want to have a love as sweet as in the novel.
But she actually has only one criterion for choosing a mate: good looks. < /p>
Do you understand now? The biggest requirement is that there are no requirements.
3. Don’t leave the quarrel until the next day
This is related to everyone’s personality. I I used to be a cold war person, but my boyfriend can't leave a problem until the next day. Even if I argue with him in the middle of the night, if I don't calm down in the end, he will keep arguing with me until dawn. Sometimes when I'm too sleepy, I just tell him I'm not angry anymore.
The most important thing is to solve the problem immediately. In fact, most problems can be communicated. Two people should not hide their thoughts and do not guess what the other person is thinking. Guessing will waste a lot of time. , causing many unnecessary conflicts.
The prerequisite for killing conflicts is to discover them and resolve them.
The above three points are applicable to most relationships, so you must keep them firmly in mind, so that you don’t have to worry about no feelings between two people.
