Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, and during the quarrel, we often say some hurtful words. Although guys get hurt too, girlfriends tend to be more sensitive, so we need to be especially careful with our words. So, what is the most hurtful thing to say to your girlfriend in a fight?
1. Belittle her appearance
Girls are very sensitive about their appearance. They hope that they can be recognized and praised by their boyfriends. Therefore, if you belittle her appearance during an argument, such as "you are so ugly", "you are fat", etc., such words will undoubtedly make her feel very hurt.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. We should respect each other and appreciate each other's beauty. Even in an argument, one should not use appearance to attack the other person.
2. Question her ability
Girls may face many difficulties and challenges in their careers, and they need the support and encouragement of their boyfriends. However, if you question her ability during a quarrel, such as "You can't do well", "You are useless", etc., such words will make her feel inferior and lost.
We should believe in each other’s abilities and give them encouragement and support. Even in an argument, respect the other person's efforts and efforts.
3. Make fun of her family background
Everyone has their own family background and this is a very sensitive topic. During a quarrel, if you make fun of her family background, such as "your family is poor", "your family is uneducated", etc., such words will make her feel hurt and humiliated.
We should respect each other's family background and should not use it to attack each other. Even in an argument, remain respectful and understanding.
4. Blame her past
Everyone has their own past, and the past has Cannot be changed. During a quarrel, if you blame her for the past, such as "what were you like before", "what did you do in the past", etc., such words will make her feel hurt and unable to let go.
We should accept each other's past and believe that she has grown and changed. Even in an argument, you should not use it to attack the other person.
5. Ignore her feelings
Girls are often more delicate. They hope that their boyfriends can care about and understand their feelings. However, if you ignore her feelings during an argument, such as "You're too sensitive," "You're just making a mountain out of a molehill," etc., such words will make her feel indifferent and unappreciated.
We should respect each other's feelings and try to understand the problem from the other person's perspective. Even in the midst of an argument, listen to the other person's thoughts and opinions.
During the quarrel IWe should pay attention to our words and avoid saying hurtful words. Respecting each other and understanding each other are the basis for maintaining love. Only through communication and tolerance can problems be solved.
