Freshness is not exactly the same as love. You can define freshness as the process of getting to know each other. At that time everything was beautiful and unknown.
The novelty makes us close to each other and familiar with each other. Love makes us rely on each other, trust each other, and accompany each other.
Couples who have just fallen in love will easily lose the freshness after a period of passionate love. It seems that two people do not have the same feeling as before when they stay together, but love is not only fresh. Sensational.
What to do when the novelty is over
The novelty is over because of the time between two people in love Stopping, not knowing how to enrich yourself, and stopping growing will make each other's freshness so short-lived.
When two people are over the novelty, they should continue to improve themselves. work, study , life is more colorful. Don't stick to each other all the time. Don't bother chatting with each other every day. That will only make the other person bored with you.
The loss of novelty is a fact that reality tells couples - love cannot always stay in the self-fantasy of the passionate love period, and love requires two people to face life together.
It doesn’t matter if you lose the sense of freshness. What matters is how you face the future with your lover, and how you are bound by the bond of the love relationship. Next, how can you achieve your common goals.
With new expectations, your love will naturally not feel boring.
There is no emotion that will eventually become dull. Therefore, you must first adjust yourself, grow and become stronger. If you bloom, butterflies will come; if you are wonderful, God will have his own arrangements.
If there is no freshness, does it mean that you don’t love it?
Freshness is only a factor of love, there is no freshness It cannot be said that I no longer love you, but that your love has lost something important.
On the other hand, freshness is a very subjective concept! The observation angle determines the observation results. The loss of freshness may be due to your lack of interesting ideas (prejudice).
In fact, if you look at the world from different perspectives, ideas, and emotions, the world will show different results.
It can be seen that the freshness depends not only on how rich each other is, but also on whether your own perspective is too single.
Love without freshness can be a more intimate love, a more trusting love, a more unreserved love; it can also be a strange love, a lonely love, or a doubtful love.
Love or not love, how can it be defined by freshness?
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