The reason why many long-distance couples break up is not because of a mistress or poaching, but because as time and distance deepen, the relationship between the two people gradually fades away. Personally, I felt that it was boring to spend time like this, so I proposed to break up. So how can a long-distance relationship keep the relationship from fading?
1. Give each other sufficient trust
Two people in a long-distance relationship should not second guess each other too much. Don’t constantly second guess each other just because the other person is excellent or has too many social activities with friends. Why is it so easy to cheat? It’s actually not as scary as you think! Give the other party enough space to keep a certain distance! Moreover, once the seeds of doubt in your long-distance relationship germinate, your relationship will become more and more unpleasant in the future. If you restrain yourself and want to check the post, the other person will become more and more annoyed. You will feel that you have such a long-distance lover who cannot accompany you in anything, and you will also limit your social interactions. Sooner or later, we will break up. And if the partner in a long-distance relationship really cheats or cheats on you, there is nothing to say. It is time to break up, and no excuses can be forgiven.
Second, plan the future path
Although you cannot change the current situation of long-distance relationships, you can You can plan for the future. It is still important for two people in a long-distance relationship to have common goals. You can start planning from small things such as where to meet, where to eat and travel, etc., to big things like where to work, where to settle down, buy a house, get married... No long-distance lover will be willing to accompany you in a relationship that has no future. Only when both sides have expectations for the future can they get to the end.
3. Create appropriate surprises
Long-distance relationships are inherently boring. Therefore, long-distance relationships especially require learning to create surprises. Love is not like couples who have been together for many years. They need to constantly attract each other. You can rush over to accompany her on her birthday and give her a surprise; or order a bouquet of flowers for her on Valentine's Day. Even though it's a long-distance relationship, you still need to give her your heart. Long-distance relationships also require such emotional maintenance, and More than just a few sweet words.
4. Two people find problems together
The reason why long-distance relationships tend to become weaker and weaker is that Because the two parties don’t really feel each other’s feelings and don’t know what to do or what to do. At this time, the two of you can have a good talk and find out the problem together. If it is your own problem, correct it immediately. This is not Let yourself become something you don't like, but let yourself become better with her encouragement, which can bring her a sense of security. When two people are together, regardless of material money, what they need is what the other person brings to them. A sense of security, you love her, you can change your bad habits for him, she loves you,I can wash your hands and make soup for you. This is how life should be, instead of looking for reasons in the other person.
In the end, if you want a long-distance relationship to maintain a relationship that won’t fade away, the most important thing is that two people still love each other and make adjustments together. , otherwise you will not be able to achieve substantial changes if you do too much unilaterally.
