No matter how much a couple loves each other during the love period, they will inevitably usher in a period of boredom after the novelty wears off. This period is when a couple is most likely to break up. So this period is generally the first in a relationship. Months, how can we get through this difficult period without breaking up?
1. Couples are bored What month is the period
Under normal circumstances, a couple will usher in what we call the boredom period after being in love for 9 months or longer, because after 9 months Here, it can be said that there is nothing new between lovers, and they have a deeper understanding of each other, so that both parties not only see each other's advantages, but also understand each other's shortcomings, and then more or less There are few complaints about the other party.
Under such circumstances, the quarrels between the two parties will naturally increase, and eventually both parties will feel disappointed in the relationship. So what should we do to get through this time?< /p>
2. How couples spend their boredom period
Every couple will have their boredom period. If If you can get through it smoothly, you will fall in love with each other even more in the days to come. If you can't change the other person's mind during this period, it is better to try to change yourself.
First, try to make the other person feel that your love is sweet, such as occasionally preparing some surprises for each other, exchanging the deepest true thoughts in both parties' hearts from time to time, and looking forward to the future.
Then don’t blame the other party excessively, and don’t ask the other party for more. Only in this way will your relationship be more stable, and the other party will feel better about your behavior. If you are grateful, then he will love you more, and if he loves you more, your relationship will naturally become better.
Finally, everyone thinks about it. After all, everyone is selfish. When they are in love, they all want to make the other person love them more. If you don't care about yourself, you will find ways to make the other person care more about you. For example, girls will have a little temper. At this time, you must be more patient and think more about the other person.
In love, no one is right or wrong. As long as you learn to tolerate each other, your love will be sweet and enviable no matter what period it is.
Although you feel very happy now, it is only after you have experienced many things together that you two learned how to love each other, and that’s how you became like this. Your friends around you are all envious. couple.
