If a man and a woman are talking about marriage, then the bride price is a big gap before marriage. Regarding the bride price, men and women also have different opinions. Boys think that it is better to do what they can, while girls feel that giving less gift is to look down on her. So, how should boys deal with their girlfriend saying that what she wants is not a gift but an attitude? After all, if the betrothal gift cannot be agreed upon, the relationship may break up.
1. What is a woman's attitude problem?
In fact, all women's "attitude problems" can be understood as - "being unreasonable but wanting to win." As long as you follow her logic and refute, you won't win. The fact that she can raise this kind of "attitude issue" means that she is no longer trying to reason with you. Just like the famous boxer saying "put aside the facts". What do you use to argue with others?
When your girlfriend says "I don't want a gift but an attitude", if you argue with her , the best result for you can only be a tie, but the reality is that many boys cannot refute their girlfriends at all. Even if you put it off for a while, you are only treating the symptoms but not the root cause.
Moreover, the current society’s tolerance for women’s unreasonable troubles is much higher than that of men, and it will not be good for you if things get too complicated. She will use this trick to disgust you again and again in other matters in the future. What should you do if you encounter this situation? Is there any compromise? Unfortunately, not all chess games have solutions, and the only way is to flip the table.
Boys who encounter this kind of problem are generally ordinary men. Why are scumbags and tall, rich and handsome men not afraid of this "attitude problem"? The scumbag couldn't even talk about "attitude issues" before he just picked up his pants and ran away. As for tall, rich and handsome men, women also know that if you dare to raise "attitude issues", they will dare to replace you. Those women behaved well when they saw others serving dishes.
2. What should I do if my girlfriend says that what she wants is not a gift but an attitude?
What a woman is betting on is that you have no choice. What she is betting on is that you dare not give up this sunk cost. Once you are pinched, I will pinch you again and again. So, what do you need to do?
In the early stages, you have to screen out women who have this kind of thinking and pull up their pants and run away as soon as possible. Rather than discovering the problem only after you have made a huge investment, there is no way out. Discussing "attitude issues" such as the bride price and house is basically done before the wedding, which is too late. When you have a disagreement and she doesn't take it seriously, will she raise "attitude issues" to force you to submit?
When the marketing of "the first cup of milk tea in autumn" appears and you explain it to her, will she end you with "attitude issues"? Will she ask unfounded questions like "Who will I save first if your mother and I fall into a river?" "Who will you help when my mother and I have a conflict?"
These are the hardest-hit areas. Anyway, no girl I looked for ever showed up.This kind of "attitude problem" has been screened out as soon as possible. If you can only find women with this kind of attitude, then there is nothing you can do.
