Some people say that if you can survive a long-distance relationship, it will last a lifetime...
If you ask ten people what they think of a long-distance relationship, probably nine people will tell you that it is impossible to succeed. of. Does that mean that all long-distance relationships cannot withstand the test? In fact, this is not entirely the case. As long as both parties have these three points, the chances of a long-distance relationship being successful will be very high.
1. There must be a certain emotional foundation
The so-called emotional foundation is the relationship between the two of you. Feelings that arise after a period of time. "It starts with appearance, respects talent, suits the character, lasts with kindness, and is loyal to character." This sentence is the best explanation. You can ask yourself, have you ever gotten along in a real sense together? Have you experienced things together? How did you resolve conflicts before? Have you both truly gotten along? If your answers are all self-affirming , then congratulations, you have met the first basic condition.
2. Unconditional trust in each other
Mutual trust means trusting each other and daring to trust each other.
You might as well judge whether a long-distance girlfriend is suitable for you from these points:
1. Whether two people have passion and how long this passion lasts. If you It's passionate to be around him, and he's passionate to be with you. Then you can consider it.
2. Are the personalities and hobbies compatible? At this time, it is more about whether you can integrate into each other's circle of friends.
3. The ancients said: Respect each other as guests. When two people are together, they should respect each other and understand each other's personalities, so that you can live more confidently.
4. Consider whether you will understand each other when you are together. There is a saying that emotional life must be managed. We need to pay attention to each other!
3. Be a principled person
Falling in love requires freedom, and so does love. In principle, if you still have an affair with other members of the opposite sex during the long-distance relationship, no matter whether you have crossed the line or not, you cannot make the other person feel at ease just because you allow yourself to be suspected.
During the period of long-distance love, you must abide by the principles of your relationship, do not violate taboos, and remain loyal to each other.
When your long-distance girlfriend needs you, take the initiative to stand up and assume your responsibilities and obligations as a boyfriend.
A long-distance boyfriend is not only an identity, but also a whole body of responsibilities.
