Question:
I have been married to my wife for five years and we have two children. Since no one has taken care of the children, my wife has been a stay-at-home mother while I work hard outside. In the process of working, I met a woman who I got along with very well. We were able to cooperate with each other at work. She learned that I took a lot of care of me when I was alone outside. Unlike my wife, who always took care of me the most. Just urging me to make money. In this way, she and I gradually developed feelings, and she also told me about her family misfortune.
Later, she told me that she had divorced her husband peacefully, and that after the divorce, she put all her thoughts on me. He also helped me find a storefront to start a business. Now the business is getting bigger and bigger. My income in one day is more than what I earned in a month before. And I can't live without her more and more. I want to ask what I should do if I meet someone I like again after getting married. Should we divorce and choose true love?
Answer:
Since you ask me whether I should get a divorce, I want to say that you don’t You don't want to get divorced, and you don't want to lose this woman who helps you make money and is gentle and considerate to you. You are afraid that you will lose more after divorce because you are too greedy. Why I say this:
1. In the name of so-called true love, you covet the money given by this woman
A woman outside of marriage helps you open a shop and do business for you, but you Doesn't love her. You just want money and the feeling of having her by your side. But even if she divorces you, you don't want to marry her, because you still have a problem in your heart that you can't get over, and you are worried that in the end it will be all in vain.
2. You keep belittling your wife but don’t want to leave her
Let’s talk about your wife first. You said that the most she does every time is to urge you to send money. Think about it. You are alone at home with two children. How much is the expense for a child, and she is a stay-at-home mother with no income of her own. What else can she do without urging you to give her money? And stay-at-home mothers make it easy, but in fact many men have no idea how hard it is for stay-at-home mothers. She takes care of her children at home alone. You don't understand her hard work, but instead complain about her and are ungrateful.
Complaints are complaints, but you also know that she is very responsible for you and the family, and you know that you have no place to find such a loyal wife. So you don't want to get divorced.
So, do you want a divorce? Of course you don’t. You want to have two women. One can satisfy your desire for money, and the other can satisfy your desire for security. You are what we are talking about. The most selfish person, if you hurt others with your actions, you will definitely not get stable happiness.
Finally, I want to say, if you really want to be happy, just make money through your own efforts and don’t continue. Staying with this so-called true love, treating your wife well, and returning to your own family is your best choice.
