In Brother Fu’s usual consultations, some goddesses always ask this question: What truths are only understood after getting married? Can you tell me in advance?
[1] Marriage is not as simple and beautiful as a fairy tale, but two independent individuals who learn to lean on each other and grow together in the trivialities of life.
Tip: The truth about marriage is that it is not always smooth sailing, but requires both spouses to learn to be with each other in the various challenges of life. Depend and grow together. We should cherish this opportunity to grow together and continue to enhance mutual understanding and trust.
【2】Love is not only the heartbeat when we first meet, but also the mutual support and tolerance that gradually emerges in the daily necessities of life.
Tip: The truth about love is that it manifests itself in the details of everyday life. Married life requires us to support each other, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and face the ups and downs of life together. We should learn to discover the beauty of love in the ordinary, and let love become deeper and deeper as time goes by.
[3] The happiness of a family does not come from the accumulation of material things, but from the mutual understanding, love and support, which become more and more precious as time goes by.
Tip: The happiness of a family does not lie in material abundance, but in the emotional connection between family members. We should focus on the establishment and maintenance of family relationships, mutual understanding, care and support, so that the family can become our most solid backing.
[4] Every quarrel is a deepening of mutual understanding and a test of our relationship, making us cherish each other's existence more.
Tip: Arguments are an inevitable part of marriage, but they are also an opportunity to enhance mutual understanding and deepen relationships. We should face quarrels with a positive attitude, find the root of the problem, and solve it together to make the relationship stronger.
【5】The child’s laughter is the most beautiful melody in my married life. His/her arrival makes me understand the true meaning of responsibility and love better.
Tip: The arrival of children makes married life more colorful and makes us understand more about our responsibilities as parents and the meaning of love. We should cherish the time we spend with our children, accompany them to grow with our hearts, and let them feel the warmth and care of the family.
[6] In marriage, I learned to let go of my stubbornness and accept each other’s differences. I also learned to find a balance in quarrels and make our relationship more harmonious.
Tip: Marriage teaches us to let go of ourselves and accept each other’s differences. It also teaches us how to find balance in conflicts and maintain harmony in relationships. We should face each other's differences with an open mind, resolve conflicts with communication and understanding, and jointly create a more harmonious married life.
【7】Marriage made me realize that a true partner is not onlyLife partners are also soul partners, finding comfort and strength in each other.
Tip: The partner in marriage is the closest partner in our life. He not only accompanies us through every stage of life, but also is the sustenance of our soul. We should cherish this deep emotional connection, support, encourage and understand each other, and face the challenges of life together.
【8】As time goes by, our marriage gradually settles and becomes deeper and more precious as time goes by.
Tip: Time witnesses the journey of marriage and makes us cherish the emotional connection between each other even more. We should be grateful for the gift of time, cherish every moment spent with our partner, and make our marriage more profound and precious as time goes by.
Marriage is a journey full of challenges and opportunities, and it requires our careful management and maintenance. By understanding, tolerating, and supporting each other, we can make our marriages more fulfilling and happier.
We should cherish the time we spend with our partners, feel the emotional connection between each other with our hearts, and let the love become deeper and deeper over the years. I hope that every friend who enters the marriage hall can cherish this beautiful fate and write your own happy chapter with your partner.
