Maybe when they first got married, the couple could talk about everything, but after a long time of marriage, due to the pressure of life, work, parenting, etc., the relationship between husband and wife will gradually become colder, and even reach the point where The point where I have nothing to say. If you still don’t want to end the relationship, you have to find a way to solve it. Let’s talk about what to do when the couple is so cold that they have nothing to say and want to save it.
1. Do happy things together
When you find that your husband and wife are so indifferent that they have nothing to say, there is no need to worry about it, because this is what many couples will face. Question, you can take a good look at your love. Did you get married too quickly? Whether to get married in a fresh feeling and state. And if you find that you have nothing to say after getting married, it means that you two have no common language, no common hobbies and interests. Maybe your partner’s spiritual level is higher than yours, or maybe you were both very hypocritical when you first met, showing each other the best side of you and not showing your bad side. As a result, you didn’t realize the other person’s side until you got along for a long time. If you have some shortcomings that you cannot accept, you will have emotional problems.
If you two still love each other deeply, the couple is so indifferent that they have nothing to say and don’t want to separate. They just use a way of escaping. To treat love differently, you might as well try to find some skills to improve yourself and make both parties happy to learn and improve together.
2. Enriching each other
Maybe at the beginning of the relationship or when they first got married, the two of you had endless things to talk about, but as time goes by, the longer you know each other, the more topics you talk about. There are less and less, I don’t know what to say, the distance is slowly getting farther, but when you truly love each other, these are nothing. When a couple is so cold that they have nothing to say, don’t deliberately look for topics. When you miss her, tell her, and then go do your own things to enrich each other’s lives. When you see something interesting and beautiful, share it. To her, you have to slowly let the coldness recede before you can regain the relationship between you.
Of course, if the relationship between you is so cold that you have nothing to say, it is because you no longer have feelings or love, and the two of you are gradually drifting apart. If you drift away and a third party appears, then the problem between you is not that you have nothing to say, but that your relationship is broken. If you want to save it, you must first let the relationship recover, so that you can continue to be together.
Every couple has their own unique way of getting along, and being able to get to the point of marriage shows that they thought it through clearly at the beginning. It did not happen overnight that the couple is so cold that they have nothing to say. Things, so it will take a lot of time to save it, and you need to work hard slowly.
