Many people say that their relationship with a girl is more than a friend, not a lover, and they don’t know how to proceed if they want to take it further. So what is the relationship status of being more than friends but not lovers? If you and a girl are more than friends but not lovers, how do you develop a relationship into a romantic relationship?
1. It’s more pleasant to get along with friends who are more than friends but not yet lovers.
The reason why many men and women have always been in a relationship state of being more than friends but not lovers yet are unwilling to further confirm the relationship. In order to ease this delicate and awkward relationship that is afraid of being exposed, they usually call each other "good buddy" and "good sister". In fact, both parties know in their hearts that in this kind of relationship, it is actually very pleasant to be friends or above, and there is no need to fulfill too many responsibilities before being a lover.
The relationship between friends and lovers may be a kind of enjoyment for both men and women, but the occasional neglect of the other party will not It makes you too angry, because after all, he is not your boyfriend/girlfriend. You don’t have to think about his/her feelings in everything, after all, you are not his/her boyfriend/girlfriend. In this way, each other can show up when needed and have fun separately when not needed. More understanding than friends, less trouble than lovers, how wonderful! Occasionally, when you feel a little excited, just be in love; when you feel calm, just be a close friend.
Therefore, a relationship like this, where the relationship is more than just friends but not yet a lover, is equivalent to one person having two uses, which is endless fun! Enjoy this relationship. Once it breaks down, it will be difficult to be friends, and lovers will face the risk of breaking up. Unless you are sure that this person is the partner who can grow old with you, but no one can be sure of this kind of thing, and the future is always unknown.
2. If a man is more than a friend but not a lover, he is still considering a choice
In fact, many times a man and a woman are more than a friend but not a lover, which is what we commonly call an ambiguous relationship. In this case, most of the time, the man and woman cannot switch each other between friends and lovers, and because they are friends, they naturally feel embarrassed, but the reason why they don't say it to death is because in this kind of relationship, it is normal for them to have a crush on each other. of. In this case, the man and woman are just not sure whether the good feelings are considered lovers. Many times, the position of friendship-oriented favorability will be buddies, not lovers.
Therefore, at least for now, the relationship should continue to be friends, and we can wait until each other has determined their mentality before making a choice whether to be friends or lovers. If you make the wrong choice, you may not even be friends by then, so no one will easily try to break through the relationship, at least not act rashly before thinking clearly.
