Although boys are willing to spend money for their girlfriends during the relationship, they still have a certain amount of money. One is based on the boy’s own financial conditions, and the other is based on the emotional status of the boy and his girlfriend. Boys I still have certain principles and bottom lines in my heart, and I am also afraid that I will become someone else's wallet or meal ticket. What does my girlfriend mean by always hinting that I buy things for her? Does she use me as an ATM machine?
1. Look at each person’s financial situation
First of all, as a girlfriend, you should be clear about your financial situation. If you have the financial ability, then go ahead and buy it. In this case, if you are still struggling with this issue, you are a bit stingy. (Of course, if your girlfriend is really open-minded, then you have to consider whether she really loves you. Are you willing to pay equally for you?) If you don't have the financial ability, then your girlfriend won't be that good. You have to consider whether the two of you are suitable, you know.
Second, look at your girlfriend’s attitude towards you
My girlfriend hints that I buy something for her, this There is no problem. After all, as long as you spend money on your girlfriend, as long as it is within your ability, I believe most boys will accept it. The key is whether the money is worth it. When your girlfriend asks you to buy something for her, When enjoying the benefits of being your girlfriend, do you think she has a good attitude towards you and is she a competent girlfriend? If she cares about you wholeheartedly, thinks about you in everything, and has plans for a long-term relationship with you, then it is OK for you to buy her things within your ability. On the contrary, just pretend to be dumbfounded.
My Kangkang eyes: I have been in a long distance with my girlfriend for three years. She also keeps hinting that I buy things for her. It's not that she can't afford it, but she wants to enjoy the treatment of a girlfriend but is unwilling to fulfill her obligations as a girlfriend. We only see each other once in a month or two, and we can't even just hold her to sleep at night. I was hesitant about this, saying that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, but at the same time she rejected me and wanted to take a step further with her. I can’t even remember how many gifts I gave her over the past three years. The gift I received was a ceramic drinking cup. Anyway, now that I’m being hinted at, I’m going to start pretending to be dumbfounded and let’s see what’s waiting for me.
3. Depend on your relationship status
Generally speaking, when you first start a relationship, both parties are still in a relatively cautious stage, and ordinary girls will not give hints at the beginning. When your boyfriend is shopping, if she really likes a boy, she is afraid of giving him the impression of being a money-worshiper. Instead, she will look very embarrassed when you first ask him to eat, and she will also feel embarrassed after the boy gives you a gift. Send a gift of similar value in return.
If a boy and his girlfriend have been in love for a long time, the girlfriend will feel that she treats the boy wholeheartedly, so there will be no burden on the boy when she implies that she buys things. Because in fact, at this time, your girlfriend has already treated you like a giant with clay feet, and it is natural for her to hint to others that buying things, so she will not think there is any problem. But when she demands from you, she will also compensate you from life, such as buying you gifts, taking care of you, cooking and washing for you, etc...
