In fact, whether you are a boy or a girl, it is not good if you are too possessive. After all, everyone has their own private space, and they are still independent individuals even if they are in love. What if you meet a possessive girl? What does it mean when a girl is possessive? Let’s analyze these issues for everyone.
1. What does it mean for a girl to be possessive?
For some boys, the more possessive a girl is towards him, the more she likes him. Because being possessive, regardless of objective advantages and disadvantages, is also a manifestation of love. You know, only when a girl likes you will she be possessive of you. If I don't like you, you are worse than a passerby.
If I had a girlfriend like this, I could uninstall all social software (except those necessary for work and normal communication). I can leave my phone unprotected for her to check at any time. After all, if you are upright, you are not afraid of slanted shadows. I can also be unambiguous with all girls except her. I can only see her. But the premise is that she also likes me enough, and it is best not to have a large double standard scene.
2. What to do if a girl’s possessiveness cannot be tolerated
Possessiveness, if it is overdone It is indeed difficult to accept, and being possessive is a personality problem, and it is unlikely to change it in the short term. If a girl is possessive and you can't stand it, the only result will be a breakup. Or you blindly cater to girls’ possessiveness and become unlike yourself at all, living an unhappy life.
@Anonymous user: My girlfriend is very possessive. In the first few months of being together, she was quite sweet. After a few months, she began to clean up all aspects of the girls in my social network. Anyway, there are all kinds of troubles, and there is talk of depression, but I must cut off the relationship anyway. I cut off many relationships in a responsible manner.
Since then, I feel like I have completely lost my autonomy. She is very clinging to me, but my personality is not that fond of others clinging to me. So when I was a sophomore in high school, many conflicts broke out. Some are for companionship, some are for jealousy. But these can basically be attributed to possessiveness.
For example, after chatting with other girls for a few words, she becomes depressed. She was very busy for a few days during the summer vacation and didn't go to see her much. She felt that she had been greatly wronged and felt that she had too little company. Later, we broke up after graduation... Now that I am not bound, I feel free and even the air I breathe is fragrant.
Being possessive actually means interfering and restricting your personal freedom and normal life at will in the name of loving you. Moreover, a girl's possessiveness shows that she is neither confident nor trusting others deep down. Living with such people, regardless of whether they are boys or girls, will lead a very depressed life and want to escape.
