Fighting between male and female friends is a common phenomenon. Whether it is because of small things or big things, it may lead to conflicts and conflicts. When two people have a dispute, girls often have their own thoughts and psychological changes. This article will start from the perspective of girls, analyze their psychology when quarreling, and provide methods to resolve conflicts.
1. Feeling sad and disappointed
When boyfriends and girlfriends quarrel, girls often feel sad and disappointed. They may feel that they are not understood or respected, which can lead to negative emotional reactions. They may begin to wonder if they are truly loved, or if the relationship is worth sticking with.
Solution: Boys need to give girls enough care and comfort. They can take the initiative to apologize and express their understanding and support. At the same time, boys should also listen to girls’ thoughts and feelings and try to avoid hurting their emotions again.
2. Doubt whether there is something wrong with yourself
During the quarrel, girls may start to wonder if there is something wrong with themselves. They may reflect on their actions and words and worry about whether they did something wrong. This kind of doubt can make girls feel anxious and uneasy.
Solution: Boys should calm down after the quarrel and communicate rationally with girls. Together they can review the reasons for the dispute and find ways to resolve the issue. Boys should also recognize girls' strengths and efforts to make them feel valued and supported.
3. Desire for apology and recognition
Girls often crave apology and recognition from boys after a fight. They hope that boys will realize their mistakes and take the initiative to apologize to them. At the same time, girls also hope that boys can recognize their opinions and feelings.
Solution: Boys should proactively apologize to girls and express their understanding and recognition of the dispute. They can resolve differences through sincere communication and find mutually acceptable solutions. Boys can also give girls some praise and encouragement to make them feel valued and cherished.
4. Hope for a sense of security and trust
Fighting will make girls feel uneasy and lose their trust in boys trust. They may begin to doubt the boy's sincerity and commitment, and worry about whether the relationship can continue. Girls hope that boys can give them a sense of security and re-establish trust between them.
Solution: Boys need to prove their sincerity and commitment through actions. They can take the initiative to correct their mistakes and take positive measures to make up for the girls' hurt emotions. Boys should also communicate candidly with girls to express their importance to the relationship and their willingness to work hard for it.
5. Seek harmony and balance
Girls often hope to return to the previous harmonious state after a quarrel. They are eager to re-establish a balanced and stable relationship with boys and avoid similar disputes again.
Solution: Boys should work with girls to find solutions to problems and work together to create a harmonious atmosphere. They can reach a balance through mutual compromise and understanding, and jointly develop some rules and principles to avoid similar conflicts from happening again.
When male and female friends quarrel, girls often feel sad, disappointed, doubt themselves, long for apology and recognition, hope for security and trust, and seek harmony and balance. In order to resolve contradictions and conflicts, boys should give girls enough care and comfort, proactively apologize and express understanding and support, re-establish trust between each other, and work together to create a harmonious relationship.
