In marriage, many husbands always ignore the needs of their wives and enjoy their wives' devotion to them as a matter of course. They never thought that their wives would be disappointed and want to divorce. At this time, the men feel panicked and their wives What should I do if my husband is disappointed and wants a divorce? If you want to keep your wife and keep the family intact, how can you get your wife to change her mind? In fact, if you want to win back your wife, you must first understand what your wife's needs are.
1. Communicate more and understand your needs
In fact, when there are problems in marriage, both of you need time to calm down. You also said that you two had a flash marriage, and sometimes some of your opinions are not consistent. Consistency is normal. But when you have disagreements, what you need to think about is why two people have disagreements, where is the main conflict, and is there a way to resolve it? In fact, many marriages require communication, especially when two people disagree or have some conflicts. Don't hope that she can understand if I don't speak, and I can understand if she doesn't speak. This is unrealistic. Because two people are living people, they will have their own ideas, needs and expectations, and these need to be communicated face to face and honestly.
2. Learn to give in
If your relationship has developed to the point where your wife is disappointed with her husband and wants to divorce. At the point where you have to re-establish contact with her. Since she says you don't understand her, you have to try your best to accommodate her and tell her, can you give me a chance to understand you? You have to tell her that you love her. When she does this, it is a reflection of her insecurity. You need to give her enough security to let her know that you love her and that you are willing to communicate and share anything with her. What concessions can you make? What concessions can she make? Is there a compromise solution? There will definitely be concessions and compromises in marriage, but how to find this balance point and satisfy both parties is very important. For example, because of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man always asks his wife to be considerate of the old man, but he never thought that no one will be considerate of your wife. Over time, your wife will naturally be disappointed. In this case, the most fundamental solution may be to live separately from your parents!
3. Self-change
If your wife is cold-hearted and disappointed with you and is unwilling to communicate with you , it is recommended to first inquire from her friends or have a chat with her to put herself in her shoes and think about whether she is under any pressure or whether she has not fulfilled her responsibilities. After understanding the problem, start to change it yourself. You must treat her sincerely. Maybe there is room for relaxation. If your wife is disappointed because of some principled issues such as cheating or domestic violence, then you need to change even more, if you really don’t want a divorce. If your wife is cheating on you, you may want to think carefully.
In fact, a wife who is disappointed with her husband and thinks that divorce will definitely not happen suddenly, but will accumulate over time. Therefore, instead of regretting it when his wife is disappointed and ready to divorce, It is better to care about her more from the beginning, so that the wife does not want to get divorced.
