When I was browsing a forum recently, I saw a comment saying that relationships between tall girls and short boys don’t last long! Although I don’t know why I’m so sure, but I want to say that there are couples around me who have tall girls and short boys. However, Others also live a very happy life, so I want to say that the long-term relationship cannot be judged solely by external factors!
In my opinion, If you want a long-lasting relationship, the first condition is - mutual achievement!
Because only a well-matched relationship can last. This is true for love, and so is friendship. When you find yourself humbled and compromised in a relationship, it means that you The needs in this relationship are not being met.
You are full of complaints about the other person and feel that you are not valued enough, which will lead to unhappiness, but in fact, you have fallen into a misunderstanding here.
Everyone is a child pampered by their parents. Why should they treat each other unconditionally in a relationship? Everyone is an independent individual and has his or her own social circle. If a new friend or lover suddenly puts a heavy weight on the other end of the scale for what you are pursuing, the relationship will inevitably become unbalanced, and eventually one party will quit.
The best relationship is when you feel relaxed, at ease and comfortable in front of the other person, and you can be yourself with peace of mind
You don’t have to hide your shortcomings and ugliness, you don’t have too many unrealistic expectations for the other person, enjoy the moment, and don’t do anything you can’t say. Everyone knows that most of the time, the complaints are because you keep putting expectations on the other person. , trying to make the other party satisfy their own needs like fighting monsters, constantly falling into an endless loop.
In the end, no one can escape intact. As you get along slowly and get to know each other, time will allow you to see a person clearly. Although most people may have a little inferiority complex and lack a sense of security, When you don't have enough wisdom to perceive and notice, no matter how strong your heart is, you won't be able to break free.
At least you have mastered a good way to dismantle this confused world, and you will use this method to build a new world. These abilities that can be exported freely are the ones that negotiate with life. chips, so improve yourself and have an independent personality, Spiritual freedom is the most effective way to maintain long-term relationship stability.