There was a piece of news on the Chinese Valentine’s Day that just passed: a young man gave 15 Chinese Valentine’s Day gifts, but his girlfriend threw them all away.
The story is probably like this. The 26-year-old male protagonist is always dissatisfied with the gifts he gives to his girlfriend. After being scolded many times, this Chinese Valentine's Day simply sent 15 gifts of different categories in one go. , I wanted to increase the probability that the gifts I gave would be satisfactory to the other party, but my girlfriend threw them all outside the door.
Therefore, the male protagonist posted a message on his WeChat Moments: I don’t deserve to be a dog licker. Please go and harm others. It is interesting for two reasons.
First, the girl does not really like the boy, but more enjoys the benefits of being loved.
Secondly, boys are too straight and don’t understand girls’ thoughts.
Let’s talk about girls first.
Throwing all the gifts outside the door, "Go away", "I can't bear this feeling, give it to whoever can bear it", these actions really don't treat the other person as a boyfriend.
As long as you really like her and have some basic respect, such a thing will not happen. < /p>
If you have money, spit it out and enjoy it happily. No need to throw up anymore, just kick my feet.
Every year there are birthdays, Valentine’s Day, Chinese Valentine’s Day, Christmas, 520, 618, Double 11 and many other festivals. At the age of 26 and just out of school, how can I have so much money to give expensive gifts every time?
Furthermore, the reason why Chinese Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day, etc. are named this way instead of directly naming Girlfriends' Day is to remind each other that this is a common holiday for both parties.
So, what about his gift? If you really like it, he is the best gift, isn’t it?
Let’s talk about boys. Straightforward and unreliable.
The two of them have been together for more than a year. No matter how ignorant they are of trends, they should have a basic understanding of them.
You should know what your girlfriend likes to eat, what cosmetics she commonly uses, and what she wants. If that doesn’t work, you can always open her shopping software and look at her shopping cart.
Can't these be given away? They are ten thousand times better than jewelry boxes and snail noodles.
It’s not like you choose carefully. Said there was no intentionTake your pick, that sentence "I think this comment is quite practical" and...
It is really difficult to make the other party not angry.
To put it another way, if you feel that you are being unfair or being taken advantage of, you should run away early instead of trying to please someone crazily and giving up until you have no other way to go.
Licking, yes. Licking a dog, no.
To be honest, both people are responsible for such a result.
But today we focus on boys. After all, we can’t change each other, only ourselves can change.
The reason why we say change ourselves is because feelings are, after all, a matter between two people.
In a certain sense, love is a kind of advanced social interaction. It not only requires understanding each other and spending time on each other, but also requires both parties to understand each other better than others.
Understand the other person’s likes, understand the other person’s needs, understand the other person’s current emotional state, and understand what kind of surprise and romance the other person needs.
Then, on this basis, we can live together happily for a long time.
Imagine the boring life of daily necessities of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea day after day. Girls also hope to have a little surprise and a little romance every now and then.
She would have been happy if she only needed a rose, but we carried a bag of rice home for her.
Is it wrong? Yes, it is very pragmatic, but it lacks emotion.
Therefore, our relationships not only need to be pragmatic, but also need some love methods.
Even if you surprise her with a satisfactory gift occasionally, or prepare a romantic dinner to make her happy occasionally, your relationship will become different.
