We all know that women have a favorable impression of men who are good-looking, motivated, responsible and down-to-earth. Therefore, if a man lacks responsibility, even if a woman likes you, she will still fall in love with you because of your irresponsibility. He left in despair. Let me share with you the signs of men’s lack of responsibility. Don’t be a man that women hate.
1. Escape from danger
@Anonymous user: When I was young, I was riding in a car with my little boyfriend and encountered a "salty pig hand". I reminded him in obscure language, but he didn't respond and continued to stare out the window. I was a little disappointed at that moment. I tried my best to twist the bad guy's fingers and make him run away.
I was too young at the time and didn’t understand responsibility, so I didn’t mention it again after that. We ended up breaking up over other things.
Every time I think about this incident in the future, I feel that breaking up is the right thing to do. If you feel that you are not capable of fighting against the bad guys, at least pull your girlfriend in front of you to protect her. He won't even do this.
The so-called responsibility and responsibility means that you give her the clearest sky within your own capabilities. If you don't bother to do this, it's not worth entrusting you with.
Second, I don’t know how to solve problems myself
@袁彦子: I was intern at the time and lived in It was a hotel, and then he came to play with me. He stayed in another room of the same hotel, on a different floor. Then one night, very late at night, probably early in the morning, I played in his room and then went back to my room. room, he sent me to the elevator, and then he called me about half an hour after I slept, saying that the door to his room could not be opened, and asked me if I had changed the password of his room. manage? ? How could I change the password to his room if I was fine? ? Then I went up to his room and tried it, and found that it really couldn't be opened. Then I took him to the front desk to solve the problem. A boy in his twenties found the hotel door broken in the middle of the night and didn't know how to find the front desk to ask his girlfriend what to do.
3. Doing things without a plan
@Don’t want to talk: We were playing together in Shanghai during the first two days I was going to Disney, so I booked the Disney hotel, and then we all stayed in the Disney hotel until the next day, which meant that we had to change to the hotel I was staying in that afternoon. I asked him, which hotel will you choose next? Have you made a reservation (because it was agreed that he would book another room in the hotel where I was staying), but he said not yet? ? ? I can't understand why the time and place can't be determined if they are completely certain? ? I said, what will you do if there is no room in the hotel where I stay? He said just find a restaurant nearby. . . Later I learned that the hotels where he went to take exams elsewhere were all booked by his mother.
4.You can’t let women rely on you
@妦妦的综合: When he was with me, he felt inferior all the time and felt that he could do nothing and was incompetent. . . When we travel together, I am always the one who finds the way. I decide where to go and what to eat. This may seem okay, but anyone who knows me at all knows that I am actually a road addict. I am a very Buddhist girl. When I go out with my friends, I never find the way or make decisions. I just go wherever my friends/best friends tell me to go and do whatever they tell me to do. . . When I go out with my boyfriend, I feel like I know everything. Generally speaking, he gives me the impression that he knows nothing and cannot be trusted or relied on at all.
