Nowadays, many young people will consider getting married after falling in love to a certain extent. However, getting married does not just require a good relationship. Many people will also ask to buy a house first and then get married, or get married first and then buy a house. , I feel that only by buying a house can the lives of two people be guaranteed. But some people say that you should never get married first and then buy a house, because some people may break their promise after getting married and still choose not to buy a house. By then, the marriage will be over and there is nothing they can do about it. How do you decide between buying a house and getting married?
1. It depends on your age
In fact, whether you should get married first and then buy a house is not a problem in itself, it just depends on the attitude of you and your partner. As far as the couples around me are concerned, those who got married before the age of 30, both parties are not local, and most of them got married first and then bought a house; those who got married after the age of 30, most of them bought a house first and then got married. It shows that before the age of 30, girls are optimistic about potential stocks, no matter what happens at the time, they are willing to use their own efforts to fight for the future; after the age of 30, girls are much more realistic, they must be blue chip stocks, and assets are hard currency. In fact, it is true that no matter which way it is, if two people cannot run a family well, there is a possibility of divorce after marriage: many potential stocks abandon their "angel investors" after they grow up; many blue chip stocks, even after they grow up, After starting a family, there will still be a large number of girls who throw themselves into their arms and are willing to "save ten years of hard work." So, to put it bluntly, finding a reliable partner is the first step.
2. Depend on personal conditions
For those who have money at home or who make a lot of money on their own It is of course not a question whether to get married first or buy a house first. Buying a house is easy. But for those who have just stepped out of school and started working, it is already good if their parents can help them complete their studies. Now when they are dating a girlfriend and preparing to get married and buy a house, the pressure is undoubtedly huge. Even if you can scrape together a few things and buy it, you will be under a lot of pressure later on. Although many people may say that it feels weird to get married in a rental house, and then they are worried about the trouble of buying and moving the furniture they like, and they are unlikely to buy the ornaments they like. It would be a waste not to discard them when moving. In fact, buying a house should not be considered as a Marriage is a hard condition, but would you bear to let the girl who is willing to marry you even without a house live a quality-free life with you? It can only be said that it is understandable that you do not have the ability to buy a house for the time being, but you have to buy a house, whether before or after marriage. You have to buy it even if you don’t have children, let alone if you have children!
3. Depend on your relationship status
Whether you are a man or a woman, if you meet someone worthy of your trust And for those of you who are emotionally mature enough to get married first and then buy a house, even if your current financial conditions are insufficient to buy a house, you can buy a house first and then get married. If you are buying a house by yourself, you should buy the house first and then get married, as well as pre-marital property. likeIf it's a blind date and you have a market, go directly to the matchmaker who wants to buy a good house. If you have no market, buy a good house and go on a blind date. In fact, whether to buy a house or not depends on the external financial foundation, and more importantly, your emotional status.
Those who say you should never get married first and then buy a house, either you made a mistake from the beginning and made the wrong choice. object. If you start wrong, then no matter whether you buy a house first and then get married, or get married first and then buy a house, the ending will not be too happy.
