When feelings burn, there will also be times when they burn out. Many long-distance relationships go on and on, but in the end they find that the two of them start to feel less and less together, and even the topics of conversation begin to gradually disappear. In a long-distance relationship, when there is no material and spiritual pleasure, and even the "feeling" cannot be satisfied, is it necessary to maintain this relationship?
People in long-distance relationships usually cannot share their feelings all the time, so it is easy to have conflicts. When you see other couples hugging and kissing, but you can only say good morning and good night, this kind of mood is really uncomfortable. Uncomfortable.
However, love is not only about enjoyment, but also requires suffering. This is especially true for long-distance relationships. If you love each other, your relationship will not gradually become cold due to the long distance, but will gradually become hungry due to the long distance. thirsty.
A different place is like wind to fire, blowing out those who are weak and encouraging those who are strong.
Then, what couples in long-distance relationships need to think about is - what kind of "feeling" is it?
In long-distance relationships, passion will undoubtedly fade, but feelings vary from person to person. Therefore, couples in long-distance relationships must understand that they are less and less feeling. Is this feeling passion or affection?
Passion for long-distance lovers is like excitement, passion, and impulse, and emotion for long-distance lovers is like warmth, happiness, and tranquility.
If you give up this long-distance relationship simply because of a lack of enthusiasm, it will easily leave the possibility of regret, because it is inevitable that the enthusiasm of a long-distance relationship will fade, and the relationship needs to be carefully maintained.
Finally, couples in a long-distance relationship should carefully consider whether the two of you are really suitable for a long-distance relationship.
The distance is too far and the frequency of meeting is too infrequent - for example, once a year; or you have a strong sense of dependence, or there is too little communication and no topics... This kind of long-distance relationship is actually It will be difficult to maintain it, and it is not suitable for long-distance relationships unless the relationship is really deep.
Therefore, a long-distance relationship not only requires two people to manage their relationship, but also needs to consider each other's actual situation and whether it is suitable to continue to maintain this long-distance relationship.
