I think everyone is familiar with the word "domestic violence", but most of us hear about men domestic violence against women, but today we want to talk about it Have you never heard of women domestic violence against men? After all, women have always been labeled as a vulnerable group, but the fact is that such domestic violence also exists! Today we will take a look at the psychology of women domestic violence men Let’s do it!
Let’s talk about two facts about “domestic violence”:
Fact 1: Domestic violence is very common
In the United States, domestic violence has become a Americans' ingrained lifestyle: A woman is beaten every nine seconds, two-thirds of women (and one in four men) have been in an abusive relationship, one in five women and one in seven One male suffered severe physical violence.
Twenty people are abused by an intimate partner every minute, totaling 10 million people each year. Intimate partner violence accounts for 15% of all crimes.
Fact 2: Both men and women can be victims of domestic violence:
No gender is Safety does not mean strong strength or mental strength. Strong people can protect themselves from domestic violence. So, what is the mentality that causes your woman to attack you? In my opinion, the reasons are nothing more than these two points:
1. This kind of domestic violence may coexist with love music:
When the relationship between the two parties is in an awkward and tense situation, they will use the behavior of hitting to reduce the tension. But the behavior may be driven by motives that are not within the scope of consciousness, so hitting you is not inconsistent with loving you in a sense.
When people are in a state of deprivation, they will become irrational and will return to the childish mentality of a child. They will beat you in order to win the war and shut you up. Just like a child lying on the ground crying in order to get a toy in a shopping mall, it is the same unreasonable method.
2. Domestic violence is hereditary, and her family of origin makes her think this is a normal way for couples to get along:
< p> Many children who grow up in a "domestic violence" environment will also be "domestic violence" or "domestic violence" in marriage.If you have no contact with other normal families, you will think that domestic violence is a normal way of getting along!
When you are in your own marriage, you will unknowingly learn and copy the way your parents get along. pattern, because in her opinion, this is how she grew up, and this should be a normal marital status.
Of course, it is still the same sentence. No matter whether the perpetrator is a man or a woman, we should have a zero-tolerance attitude towards domestic violence. What do you think?
