In the social concept, cheating on a woman is a very humiliating thing for the husband, and cuckolding is absolutely intolerable. Under normal circumstances, the husband will directly choose divorce to end this humiliating marriage. But few men think about why women cheat.
1. The need for love
Women need love very much. The "love" they need There are: care, care, warmth, comfort, loyalty, trust...
After getting married, many husbands will no longer pay attention to their wives, thinking that they don’t need to pay too much attention to the woman they marry home. , she is already her own person anyway, so she rarely cares for her wife, which makes women feel insufficient for love and gives them the idea of cheating.
2. Lack of Sexuality
Both men and women have physiological needs, but the peak periods of their physiological needs are different. The period when men’s physiological needs are strongest is generally From 18 to 24 years old, a man's physical function will begin to decline after the age of 35, and he will also begin to suffer from impotence and premature ejaculation.
The period when women’s physiological needs are strongest is generally between the ages of 30 and 40. At this time, women’s sexual desire is strongest, but men have begun to lose it. Many women are suffering from sexual desire at the age when they are most thirsty. The lack of love leads to cheating.
3. The Temptation of Money
When I was young, I thought money was everything. When I got older, I realized that it was true. . ——Oscar Wilde
For money, school girls can engage in paid dating, unscrupulous hair salons have charming women, and massage parlors offer special services. Money can always easily seduce people.
Some women will choose to cheat if they are tempted by money in marriage. "If you are unwilling to cheat when ten thousand yuan is thrown into your face, then it only means that I have not spent enough money..."
4. Looking for excitement
Rules are meant to be broken. ——Jinx
There is a rebellious nature in human nature - things that are forbidden will always find ways to violate them. In the Bible, Adam and Eve ate the "forbidden fruit". This nature can be seen everywhere in society - lying, insulting, stealing, robbing, tax evasion, rape...
It's like being forbidden Bad students who break the rules and teachers' prohibitions will always be deliberately violated. The psychology of some women cheating is similar to this.
5. Being seduced
Under normal circumstances, women will abide by women's ethics and will not engage in cheating Such an immoral thing.
But if a woman looksIf you are charming, there will be no shortage of men to seduce. When men's tricks are too deep, women will be easily fooled and deceived.
Therefore, it is better for married women to keep a distance from other men as much as possible to avoid the possibility of being seduced into cheating.