Regarding the matter of living together before marriage, there are pros and cons, and everyone has different attitudes towards this matter, so I won’t go into details about right and wrong. Today I just want to talk to you about pre-marriage. Let’s take a look at the benefits of living together.
1. Cohabitation is equal to trial marriage
Cohabitation is equal to trial marriage. I believe everyone agrees on this point. I won’t refute it. When two people live together, many details that were invisible before will be exposed. At this time, we can have a 360-degree view of whether the other person is the marriage partner we want.
2. Cultivation of relationships
Without cohabitation, two people can only be together when they are dating. However, after living together, two people can get up and eat together as long as they have time. Stay together.
Every couple will feel tired after a long time, but this is a stage that two people must go through. Living together can spend this time in advance. As long as you are still together, your relationship will no longer be the same. In a simple relationship, you will feel that the other person has become your relative. Of course the biggest advantage is that you can take care of each other, especially when you feel helpless.
3. It is easier to have a clear division of labor
Cultivating the habit of doing housework in advance will be a good choice after marriage life has great benefits. In our lives, we often hear many people complain that after getting married, the other half will do nothing but enjoy themselves.
Then when we live together before marriage, if we develop this habit in advance, we don’t have to worry about the other half not helping to share housework after marriage. After all, we have formed a habit.
Finally, what I want to say is that cohabitation is not suitable for couples who have just been together, so if you just get together and you ask a girl to live together, it will only make the girl think that you want to "play a gangster" ”, and will also think that you are an irresponsible person.
So even if you want to live together, you have to wait until you have a deeper relationship before bringing it up. This is also a responsible attitude for girls, so that girls will be willing to entrust themselves to you. , so, are you clear?
