Many boys feel that their girlfriends are always irritable for no reason, or get irritated over trivial things, making it impossible to comfort them. Let me share with you what to do if your girlfriend is upset? You must first understand your girlfriend's irritable psychology before you can help her solve the problem appropriately.
1. Understand your girlfriend’s irritable psychology
If you don’t understand why your girlfriend is often irritable, then let me, who is often irritable, tell you about it. Let me give you an example:
Last Saturday morning, I felt a little unhappy as soon as I opened my eyes, because I dreamed last night that my boss thought my plan was not well written and wanted to rewrite it, and I had to work overtime to rewrite it. But I knew it was a dream and not something real, so I stretched out and came to the living room, ready to enjoy my weekend.
When I arrived in the living room, I found my boyfriend sitting on the sofa. He went to play games and didn't come over to hug me and say good morning. When he looked up, he saw that the takeout box he had finished last night was still on the table, and the oil dripping on the table had solidified. I feel even more annoyed, so I will hold it back for now.
I went to the kitchen to pour myself a glass of water, but I found that I couldn’t find a clean glass, so he took it away. At this point my heart exploded.
Then my boyfriend asked me what I wanted to eat for breakfast? I said I had no appetite, and my tone was obviously bad. He was a little confused and asked me what happened?
I thought to myself that on this wonderful Saturday morning, I couldn’t nag like an old lady, and I didn’t want to ruin the mood of the two of them, so I said, “It’s okay, I’m a little annoyed for no reason.”
< p> Look, in fact, a girl is not irritable for no reason. There must be a reason for her irritability. If you think your girlfriend is irritable for no reason, then you haven't analyzed her irritable psychology.2. What to do if your girlfriend is irritable
When you find that your girlfriend is irritable, this time You have to do things immediately that will make your girlfriend happy 100%, so the question is, what things will make your girlfriend happy?
This requires daily accumulation. There are always some things that your girl will like and be happy no matter what mood or state she is in. You usually have to observe, discover, listen, accumulate, and keep it in mind. We call this a "life-saving list", for example:
Start cleaning up the miscellaneous dishes and chopsticks placed on the surface at home;
Help your girlfriend light scented candles ;
Start making breakfast for your girlfriend;
Plan a weekend trip with your girlfriend;
Hold your girlfriend up and lift her up high
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After doing this, the most important thing is to wait for your girlfriend’s mood to improve. withoutWhen you feel irritable, find an opportunity to communicate with your girlfriend and ask her why she was irritable and in a bad mood before. Then you can avoid many conflicts and problems the next time you get along with your girlfriend. If your girlfriend doesn't want to say it, that's okay, just let her know first that you will always be on her side and support her.
