Most men feel that as long as they are good enough to a woman and pay enough, they can make the relationship last longer. But such a result will only make his status in the eyes of women lower and lower. So how do boys manage a relationship for a long time?
First of all, we need to know why two people break up:
1. Relationship imbalance
When you hold hands when dating, hug when you are ambiguous, and kiss when you are in love, these are your happiest moments, and you will not see any shortcomings in girls. Because your relationship is balanced at this time. And after you have been in love for a year, you may find that this girl gets angry with you, quarrels, and breaks up with you at every turn.
How this situation usually happens is that you are too good to her, so good that you indulge in everything she does and tolerate everything about her, making her feel that what you do is what she should do. At this time, your actions of loving her will be taken for granted by her. Faced with this situation, boys must have an attitude when they are in love, refuse when they should refuse, and never try to be a good man. When faced with unreasonable requests from girls, you can choose to refuse or ask for some benefits.
For example, a girl said: "I am going to have dinner with some classmates today, and I may come back later." "Then please show your sincerity and impress me, and I will agree to go."
< p style="text-align: center;">2. Unsuitable
In relationships around the age of 30, the most common reason given by girls for breaking up is inappropriateness, maybe There are a very small number of couples who are really not suitable for each other, but how many are really suitable? Apart from family, financial and other reasons, what is really suitable?
Whether you are compatible or not depends mainly on whether the girl can be tolerant. If you are not tolerant, it means there is a problem in your long-term relationship with her.
For example, if you like smoking, she will not pay too much attention to this issue during your passionate love, but when your lives merge into one, this issue will become the reason for your breakup.
Many times, even if girls can’t stand it, they will still force themselves to try to tolerate it. It's like a boy who doesn't like the food his girlfriend cooks, but he still finds ways to force himself to adapt slowly. How should we solve this kind of problem? Let him see the changes in the details of your life. If you don't like it, then I will only smoke in the living room from now on. Slowly, I won't smoke at home or on dates with you.
3. Pursuer
In love, we often meet suitors, and many times the two break up. It's not about how the suitor gets involved, but whether the girl tells you that she has a suitor or isHow to tell you that I have a suitor.
Many brothers’ view of love is that they start to relax after successfully establishing a relationship. The most common sentence used by girls is "you have changed."
The most important thing about a relationship, especially a long-distance relationship, is the novelty. Your attraction to her continues to decline. After comparing with other men, she finds that she can be with a better man. At this time , the possibility of you being cheated is very high.
How should boys continue to attract girls? Externally, you can try more different styles of clothing. You can cultivate more hobbies within yourself. There are many methods, and we have talked about many of them in previous articles.
There are very few attractive men, and we don’t have to rely on our own charm to conquer girls. Find the advantages in ourselves and infinitely magnify these advantages in front of girls. This is to maintain a long-term relationship. The key to breaking up.