Any relationship requires two people to work together and maintain it to last, especially in the dull period after a passionate love. When the relationship enters the dull period, what things can still keep the relationship at a constant temperature?
1. When you get home, stop doing other things and give him a deep hug.
2. Maintain a desire to share, actively share each other’s lives every day, and at the same time focus on each other’s plans. (For example, "You went to the gym today, how did you feel about the effect?")
3. Try to listen to your partner's things, and encourage and affirm your partner's achievements.
4. Take 20 minutes before going to bed to pay attention to each other's lives, instead of falling asleep relying on TikTok, games or watching TV shows.
5. Keep the habit of buying flowers for each other on Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, and birthdays. It doesn’t need to be expensive. Even the simplest bouquet of flowers can make the recipient happy for a long time.
6. Try to experience the other person’s interests and hobbies. You don’t have to like it, but please don’t slander or deny it.
7. Plan the date a few days in advance. Don’t wait until Saturday morning to figure out what to do with each other.
8. If the other person is cooking, then you should not be the young master or the aunt, but also take the initiative to take on the housework.
9. Compliment the other person’s appearance, aesthetics and clothing. Pay attention to the other person’s dressing up and don’t be stingy with your own compliments.
10. When the other person is in a bad mood, you can give him or her a shoulder and a leg massage. You are not required to solve the problem for him, but you must be there for him.
11. When you come home late, be sure to inform your partner in advance and don’t let the other person worry about you.
12. When your partner asks you for help, regardless of whether you agree or not, don’t make her feel guilty. They will feel that they are very familiar with each other.
13. When you want to be alone, you have to tell your partner that you need some time alone, and when you calm down, you will return to him immediately.
14. Don’t just let one party coax the other party all the time, but try to coax each other, and the relationship will have a different mood.
15. In winter, get a hot water bottle under the quilt in advance, and you will feel unusually warm and comfortable all night long.
16. When you see the other person feeling depressed or tired, you should seize the opportunity to greet them and ask them if they need help. Then, the two people face difficulties together.
17. When you go out, you should develop a habit of asking the other person what they need to take with you, and then keep it in your mind., help each other do some small things within your ability.
18. If possible, two people should not be stingy with their kisses.
19. Take the time to call the other person during work hours and ask them what they are doing, or share some exciting and interesting things with them, or just say "I love you".
20. If conditions permit, raising a small animal that both like each other is very conducive to emotional preservation.
21. When you are outside, leave a phone number where you can be found. When you arrive at your destination safely, notify the other party to reassure them.
22. Every month, two people dress up carefully at least once and participate in a date in the world of two.
23. Of course, sex life is also an essential element every month.
24. When you stay in a hotel together, you can prepare some special surprises in advance, such as a bottle of champagne, a scented candle, or a bouquet of flowers.
25. Watch a play, movie, or art exhibition once a month to blend the aesthetics and hobbies of two people.
26. Integrate each other’s social circles, openly introduce your partner to your friends, and let people around you witness every moment of your love.
27. Pay attention to each other's emotional changes, and express your enthusiasm from time to time: "You seem to be in a good mood today", or "You look very tired", so that the other person's emotions can be controlled by you. within the range.
28. Let her see the photos of the two of you in your wallet or mobile phone wallpaper, and change the latest photos from time to time.
29. When two people discuss issues together, tell each other that you respect his or her ideas and need them to respect yours. Don’t sacrifice yourself to be a “saint” forever.
30. Watch a drama or a variety show together. For example: "The Signal", "Fleabag", "Black Mirror", "Celebrity Detective", "The Life I Want" and so on.