Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, and when fighting, sometimes it may be a wise choice to let your girlfriend leave. Why do we do this? This article will explore this issue from several aspects.
1. Avoid aggravation of emotions
When two people are emotionally charged during a quarrel, it is easy to say words that hurt each other. These words can hurt each other deeply and even cause irreparable damage to the relationship. Therefore, letting your girlfriend leave during an argument can prevent further intensification of emotions and give both parties a chance to relieve stress.
2. Think calmly about the problem
Quarrels are often caused by differences or misunderstandings between the two parties on a certain issue. When emotions are high, it is difficult for us to calmly think about the nature of the problem and its solution. Letting your girlfriend leave can give both parties some time to think calmly, re-examine their positions and opinions, and find better ways to communicate.
3. Protect each other’s dignity
In heated arguments, we can easily lose our minds and ignore each other’s feelings. Letting your girlfriend leave can prevent you from impulsively saying words that hurt your partner's dignity. Protecting each other's dignity is the foundation of a healthy relationship, and letting your girlfriend go can provide both parties with an opportunity to protect their own dignity and that of the other person.
4. Seek help from a third party
Sometimes, during a quarrel we may not be able to find a solution to the problem, or both parties insist on their own views and cannot compromise. At this time, letting your girlfriend leave can give both parties an opportunity to seek help from a third party. The third party can be a friend, family member, or professional counselor. They can look at the problem objectively and give pertinent suggestions.
5. Give space and time
Everyone needs a certain amount of space and time to deal with their emotions and problems. Letting your girlfriend leave during an argument can give her some time to calm down, think about the problem, and find a solution. At the same time, give yourself some time to reflect on your words and actions and be ready to face the conversation again.
Asking your girlfriend to leave during an argument may be a wise choice. It can avoid emotional aggravation, give both parties a chance to calmly think about the problem, protect each other's dignity, seek help from a third party, and give space and time to deal with the problem. Of course, after a quarrel, we also need to communicate and solve problems in time to maintain a healthy relationship.
