No matter how good the relationship is in the early stages of a relationship, the relationship will gradually fade as time goes by. If not handled properly at this time, it may lead to the breakdown of the relationship. So how should you deal with the relationship when the relationship fades? Woolen cloth?
How to deal with feelings that have faded?
1. Ensure freshness
Every day is a brand new day, so the relationship between two people should also remain fresh. The freshness is the result of the joint efforts of the two people. Both people should continue to learn and recharge. In this way, both people can see the progress of the other and the constant transformation.
2. Be more proactive
After being in a relationship for a long time, if each other does not take the initiative, it is easy for the feelings between each other to fade. This is normal. If you want to keep each other's feelings at a If they are in a passionate state, then each other needs to take more practical actions and be more proactive, so that they can surprise and make each other happy, become more interactive, and have more communication between lovers.
3. Allow the other person to be imperfect
Everyone has shortcomings, even the perfect lover in your eyes , there will also be things that make you feel bad. We must accept this from the heart, do not require the other person to be perfect, and have a tolerant heart. You should see more of the other person's strengths and try to ignore the shortcomings, or give them kind reminders and slowly correct them.
4. Establish a good attitude
Don’t be impatient, lose your temper, or yell at every turn. Everyone is in a bad mood, and everyone is unhappy sometimes. But you have to explain the reason to the other person and don't be mean to the person without any reason. You may accidentally hurt the other person!
5. Cultivate feelings for each other
Think It is difficult to return the relationship to the passion it had when we first fell in love, because we are already familiar with each other and have a lot of understanding of each other. The relationship now has become a family relationship. But it can also be changed. Two people should interact more and quarrel less in their daily lives, so that their relationship can be maintained better.
6. Learn to express yourself
Chinese people are naturally reserved and embarrassed to express their love. This is not conducive to communication between lovers. If you don’t say a lot of things, others will be embarrassed. Incomprehensible. Therefore, developing the habit of expressing your love is very beneficial to increasing each other's feelings. It can be a hug, a kiss, a message, or a sentence of "I love you". You will find its magic.