If a relationship wants to last for a long time, it will definitely not work if it is allowed to develop freely. The key is to rely on the maintenance of both parties. As a man, if you want to maintain a relationship well, sweet words alone are definitely not enough. , you also need to do these three things well in your relationship.
One: Help her make decisions
In life, we don’t like others to ask us to make our own decisions.
But people always have times when they are confused and hesitant. At this time, we need someone to give us pertinent and reasonable suggestions.
The most common choice in life is the choice of eating. If neither of you can make up your mind.
It’s up to you to decide. It doesn’t matter. This is actually very uncomfortable.
Behind these words, there is more of an attitude of not caring, rather than the attitude that women want most. For most women, the most attractive moment for a man is when he makes a decisive decision.
At this time, you can help her analyze the pros and cons and find the right direction.
Getting rid of the fog of her choice, this is what women appreciate most.
Two: Let go of your stubbornness
In the world of love, bumps and quarrels are inevitable Noisy.
Many times, the issues you dispute are not issues involving each other's principles. There is no need to distinguish who is right and who is wrong.
A while ago, Yang Li went viral on the "Talk Show Conference" when she uttered some wise words about men's self-confidence.
It’s because she revealed the problems that countless women encounter when getting along with their boyfriends.
When encountering problems, men always want to stand on the moral high ground and make women admit their mistakes, but is it really necessary?
A quarrel cannot be fought alone. When the quarrel got heated, both people were at fault.
At this time, being reasonable is adding fuel to the fire, but if you can apologize first, or temporarily cease the war.
If you bring two people to the same side instead of on opposite sides, your relationship will be greatly eased.
Three: Have a clear sense of proportion
The man who can best give a woman a sense of security is not the man next to her No friends of the opposite sex.
But if you have friends of the opposite sex, you can keep good boundaries and never let her have those inexplicable worries and doubts. There was a former colleague, Xiao Fan. Before her boyfriend fell in love with her, he was famously amorous in the company.
I have constant friends of the opposite sex around me, and I have dated adult men and women.Secret, even if there is no emotion, it will still make people feel ambiguous.
But after getting together with Xiaofan, all the girls around the boy disappeared.
He didn’t deliberately pretend to be a stranger to anyone, but every time a girl asked him for help or contacted him alone.
He will tell Xiaofan immediately that his interactions with all friends of the opposite sex are transparent in front of Xiaofan.
In fact, if a woman asks you to sever ties with all your friends of the opposite sex, it’s not because you really have something.
It’s your attitude and ambiguous way of getting along with other people that cannot make her feel safe.
She can only use this extreme method to make you feel at ease. It's not that she is too sensitive, but that you are too casual.